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I have read a lot of posts on here in regards to this subject. It seems to be more rampant with fathers/daughters (but I'm sure it happens with some mothers/sons too.) I read time and time again about how the father and daughter are being affectionate in a way that is not appropriate or disturbing. Daughter sitting on father's lap, "snuggling up" together, sweet talking, things like this --- at what age in your opinion do these things become innapropriate??
I am so happy skid visit at mil's is over. YAY. It's funny how I can predict the exact conversations and situations that will come up, the same old tired crap.....I never enjoy skid visits, I detest them. I just sit there and put on my happy face and grit my teeth until I get through it. But this visit was extra irritating.
Today my partner is taking to his ex wife a 3 page long list of worries/concerns/symptoms of his sons autistic traits!! Let's see what she's going to do with that!!
Sigh.
I feel mentally worn out from having SD for a "punishment weekend" due to the fact that I had to constantly monitor her and give her school-work and chores etc. And, since the meeting with BM, it seems she is more comfortable to talk about mom and mom's family, so I got more than I really wanted to hear.
Sequel to my previous blog about Karma - I cant stand it anymore, SD10 is being a real little shit at BM house, calls BM slut, mole etc etc, she has sent text to BM saying "i hate you fucken cont" (her spelling) and yet she doesnt behave like that at our house. The problem is this kid has absolutely no boundary's for eg, after sending that text from her phone at our house SD calls BM and says i am out of credit, BM then drives around to our house to give her more !!! :?
BM called SS11's phone about an hour ago and I am still fuming.
I discovered 2 things about Princess this afternoon, and I'm wondering if I should tell her dad... I don't usually keep secrets, but she is 18 now and in college. She does have the right to make her own mistakes and learn from them... And maybe that's just what she needs...
DH just left for the infamous birthday party and no more got pulled out of the driveway til my cell rings. My phone displays the town the number is from and in a few seconds the caller i.d. I answered because I thought it was my MIL; it wasn't. It was SD23 -
Me: Hello
SD23: It's right behind the Dollar Store
Me: You dialed my number, I think you meant to dial your father's. He just left a few minutes ago. I'm not with him.
SD3: Why?
Me: Well, SD23, under the circumstances I didn't feel like I should attend.
SD23: CLICK
So my boyfriend and I have been living together for one year now. He has two daughters..one is 11 the other 13. The 13 year old is the one that is breaking my heart. We have the girls every other weekend and two evenings during the week. Some days she is fine, talkative and friendly. Other days she'll cry and throw fits, has even refused to come since I'm here. She has been destructive dumping my shampoo down the drain, putting wet towels under the covers on my side of the bed and flat out told her dad she wishes I would just go away.
Loghead is always pissy on Sundays. I think it's because there is always so much to do, and then on Sunday, he realizes it isn't done, and then it's time to start a new work week.
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