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BM shocked us yesterday after she texted DH asking if she could come by tonight after the kids are in bed to discuss the whole ss playing football thing. A few things are going thru my mind here. 1) she's never been very accommodating. Is she trying to start co parenting better with DH? 2) Why am I included in this? Maybe she wants a moms perspective on football since BS played it last year? I told DH I wasn't very comfortable being involved in this convo especially since she threw out the lawyer threat the other day.
Why did my house smell totally fine until the SS's woke up and came upstairs, and then it smelled like continuous fart? Feel free to answer this question any way you want, but my guess is probably that SS's are disgusting, prepubescent grossness. I do not now, nor will I ever understand why teenaged/pre-teenaged boys apparently take to showers and cleanliness like vampires take to sunlight and garlic. Especially when the father of said boys was OBSESSED with cleanliness when he was their age. Maybe their mom is just a total grosser too and that's where they get it from. Just a guess.
So I just need some feedback here on whether I am being taken for a total ride here or not. My SO and I live next door to each other - we have 4 bios each so living together is a little tricky. SO is building a home on his block that will (when finished) be big enough to accommodate all of us. He is self employed in the building industry and while that has provided him with income his work is drying up. I have NEVER been reliant on him financially. What my issue is is that SO always seems to skive off paying his share of the day to day expenses.
If you've read any of my blogs lately, you'll know that I've been in conflict with my children's father regarding DS9 and his travel ball team.
I've recently married a lovely man, who has a 7 year old daughter who is spoilt. I met him when she was 3 and a half, after his wife passed away leaving him with a 1 year old. I'm not huge on kids but I especially dislike spoilt children. Because SD's mum passed away, everyone compensates by spoiling her. She gets EVERYTHING she asks for. And to top that off, she's an only child. SD mills the attention and the treats. I've recently been posted overseas, so she's also been lucky enough to travel a fair bit.
We'll start with the good. NB arrived bright and early Monday morning. She and I are 100% healthy. She was 9 lbs 6 oz (I won the bet) and 21 inches long. Great sleeper and eater. Everyone has been joking that I perfected human cloning, she looks identical to DH. BD2 and SD3 both love her to death and are tripping over each other to help me with her.
Apparently I got an invite to play a game with some random person and didn't see it as I have a life.
Anyway today this girl sent me a pm telling to play or resign bitch. We got into a heated back and forth she tried to say I was physco whatever as she said that she would stop pming me til I did. I told her to leave me the eff alone! Physco.
What is up with nasty people like this. Crap how rude and discusting
It's over. Yesterday we had a fight with him telling me he didn't have money to get a some cheap parts (about $38) to fix the ice dispenser in the fridge a couple day ago but turned around to spend $30 on some swimming goggles for his kids. So he went off to his friend's house until 10 o'clock when I called him to pick me up at Walmart because I was too tired to walk home. He flat out refused so I walked 30 minutes to get home when it was pitch dark out with rain pouring on my face, it was a stormy night with lightning and thunder. I came home soaked from head to toe.
Only had this thought in passing but I have to get it out by writing it out.
My brother came to me and asked me how he should propose to his GF. I choked on my broccoli and feta pizza. This girl is 22 and has two kids by two different fathers. She dresses like she just stepped off a pole. Every time I see her she has a bottle or a glass of alcohol in her hand. She makes me think of how BM2 probably was when she was younger. She is always cursing at her kids and she believes in spanking even her youngest who is only 2. I don't understand what my brother sees in her. I think he will be making the biggest mistake of his life by marrying her.
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