I've recently married a lovely man, who has a 7 year old daughter who is spoilt. I met him when she was 3 and a half, after his wife passed away leaving him with a 1 year old. I'm not huge on kids but I especially dislike spoilt children. Because SD's mum passed away, everyone compensates by spoiling her. She gets EVERYTHING she asks for. And to top that off, she's an only child. SD mills the attention and the treats. I've recently been posted overseas, so she's also been lucky enough to travel a fair bit.