SD, age 18, is going to college this week. DH took SD out to eat and to spend the day with her on Sunday. He asked if I wanted to go and I passed. DH says that SD wants to see me which I find VERY AMUSING. I am not sure if he says that because he is still hopeful about a BIG,HAPPY, and BLISSFUL family or if SD says it to try to worm her way into moving in with us. She isn't moving in my house.
DH wanted to take her out because SD told him it would be awhile before she sees him again since she is going away to college. AWAY...she is going to be 10 ( TEN) miles away.
DH received a message from SD (age 18) last night. She stated that she is receiving death threats by multiple guys on social media. I only engaged to ask if she reported it. She said that she did. I disengaged from the conversation. I am sure there is more to the story than someone just picking her out of millions of people to send her death threats.
SD, age 17, graduated at the end of May. It took an extra month to finally get child support stopped. Child support sent back his money for the month of June.
BM hasn't said a word. I am not sure if she is aware that it has stopped yet. She is notorious for not checking the balance on her card. She gets child support automatically placed on a debit card. She just assumes money is there until the card doesn't work anymore. She may even accuse SD of stealing the money before she realizes she just isn't getting any more. I am just waiting for her to go "off".
BM's daughter (I will call her Sue) (not Dh's child even though she calls DH Dad) she has a 6 year old boy from a previous relationship. For the first 5 years of his life the child rarely got to see his dad because Sue was just being a b!tch about visitation. The court order at that time said that visitation was "agreed upon by both parents" and of course, she would always tell him, no. If she had plans and needed a babysitter, she would agree. If he wanted the child for a grandparents birthday party or father's day...the answer was usually NO.
SD, 17, calls DH yesterday at work. She needs to see him because she is SOOOOO UPPPPSEEET. She wouldn't tell him why over the phone. DH goes to see her after work. She is upset because BM has accused her of stealing her debit card. BM couldn't find the debit card so she blamed SD. Keep in mind BM accused her of stealing it because she has stolen in MULTIPLE times in the past. When DH told me, I don't realize my eyes could roll back in my head that far. SD said she didn't steal the card THIS time. I had to remind DH trust is something that is EARNED.
SD, age will be working as a waitress again. She wanted DH to leave from work today to take her to the job interview. He didn't take her. He didn't get the message in time to leave work. She got a ride with someone else. She told him BM wasn't going to take her. I am not sure if BM said she wouldn't take her or if BM was busy and couldn't take her. SD lies. She likes to tell DH that BM will not do something for her and DH will just jump to the chance to do it because BM wasn't going to do it.
DH hasn't really heard much from her. She is graduating. She has her cap and gown. She will graduate on May 31. NO MORE CHILD SUPPORT....YES.
She called dh and she wanted him to give her $100.00. The last 3 times she has called it is because she wants money. Twice $20 and now $100.
SD, age 17, contacted DH last week. She tells him that her graduation from high school has been pushed up to this week. One could only hope but it is hard to believe anything she says. We will just have to wait until she forwards him a copy of the diploma.
Last update, DH received a summons to go to court because SD was stealing money from BM AGAIN, skipping school, and fighting at school. She was placed on probation until July when she is 18. and she had to get a job at a local fast food place and pay BM back the money. She didn't get to keep any of the money.
DH received a summons to go for a Child in need of services for SD, age 17. DH didn't go. Two days later, he gets another summons to go again, the court date had been rescheduled to Friday of last week. DH didn't go again.