Child support has finally ENDED
SD, age 17, graduated at the end of May. It took an extra month to finally get child support stopped. Child support sent back his money for the month of June.
BM hasn't said a word. I am not sure if she is aware that it has stopped yet. She is notorious for not checking the balance on her card. She gets child support automatically placed on a debit card. She just assumes money is there until the card doesn't work anymore. She may even accuse SD of stealing the money before she realizes she just isn't getting any more. I am just waiting for her to go "off".
SD has been asking to see DH a lot more now. She keeps telling him that BM has kicked her out of the house and she needs a place to stay. According to SD, BM has kicked her out of the house three times since she has graduated. SD stays with BM's oldest daughter. DH no longer mentions SD coming to live here. I have reminded him multiple times that she isn't coming here because of HER behavior. He just tells SD that we do not have the room.
SD is working another job as a waitress. She is working to buy things for her dorm room. BM and BM's sister already bought some stuff for her. I am not sure if DH bought anything or not. He was upset BM wasn't buying her more stuff. I asked him what type of stuff did he think she NEEDS for her dorm room. I told him she didn't need it furnished like an apartment. She just needed sheets, comforter, pillow and towels. Most of the other stuff that SD says she needs is mostly WANTS and she can work to buy those things. I almost told him that it would be better for her not to buy a lot of things for her dorm room because it would be easier to move her out in a few months when she gets kicked out BUT I kept my mouth shut. I almost feel sorry for DH because he is living in Neverland and really thinks she is going to be at college for years and graduate. He is just as proud as a peacock now just spreading his feathers. I know, he is going to be greatly disappointed in a few months and it will be the colleges/professsors/other students fault that SD gets kicked out.
The phone DH bought her for graduation, SD didn't pay the monthly bill so it isn't working anymore. DH was smart enough to buy her a prepaid phone. She can only send Facebook messages or call using Facebook.