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My StepDaughter who isn't really my step daughter!!!!!

mwarren's picture

So allow me to explain. I will (possibly) be marrying a man in 13days who is wonderful, I love him with everything I have and he is a great man. However he has a huge heart that doesn't allow him to want to see the wrongs of his life... My FH has two biological children and plays father to several of his ex's children.

Another day at the Banana Factory 3

zuzieq611's picture

Fridge is amazingly sparkley clean, cleaned bottom oven, next I will move on to the air purifier and the water purifier.....right after I go to HD to get a metal blade for the roto-zip, if I can't get that mailbox post cut I'll have to go stand by the road on one leg with one arm extended pretending to be a mailbox lol.

Not sure I'm ready to blend *Intro*

WindX's picture

I have been lurking on this forum for a while but I decided to join in. I am dating a guy that I love very much. His lifestyle just doesn't seem to fit with mine. I am perfectly happy seeing him apart from his life with his kids, though he is pushing for more. I guess I understand where he's coming from. Just not sure I have what it takes to blend into his life in that way.

Another day in the Banana factory.....

zuzieq611's picture

Hoping that this will relieve some stress, and perhaps I can look back and see where I am being reasonable and unreasonable. Have you ever noticed that when you are actually in the middle of an 'emotional' situation....that any sense of reason totally eludes you? It's like when you need 'reason' the most....it runs like hell out the back door.

Amazing quote...

amanda_anne87's picture

I love this and just had to share it. Someone had this as their response in another blog...

Annoying behaviors seem somewhat tolerable to me. Outright manipulative, disrespectful, spiteful, intentional, aggressive behaviors are something totally different.

That is the GREATEST way to describe my boyfriend's daughter. I just narrowed it down to "annoying" but this is perfect!

Part of me feels kinda bad for thinking this way, but I can't help it!

Step brat getting on my last nerve

amanda_anne87's picture

I'm new at this whole step-mom thing. We aren't actually married, but we live together. We get his daughter (who just turned 7) every other weekend. I've tried countless times to get my boyfriend to discipline his child, but have no success with it. In his mind, if he disciplines her, she won't want to come back. He sets no ground rules with her, whatever she wants she gets. I'm to my breaking point. The weekends we have her I try to find something to do just to get away. I sign up to work extra, go shopping, go out with friends, or just take a long drive.

BM wants to pick up SS15's bed - and SO said no...

LizGrace65's picture

SO said no, SS can't come pick up his bed and the rest of the stuff he left here this weekend or next weekend.

SO didn't tell BM why - but it's because I'm having surgery at 7:30 Monday morning.

Awesome of SO to realize and enforce that I would want to relax as much as possible this weekend (beforehand), and next weekend I'll still be recovering. And awesome of him to protect my privacy about it.

BM probably thinks SO is just trying to be a dick, since he didn't tell her why.

Peaceful Day

buttercookie's picture

I am home by myself, husband is at work, it's been so peaceful since SS has been gone. I cleaned the house today and a lot of thoughts popped in my head.The one that struck me the most was I don't miss cleaning the urine up off the floor in the bathroom. I know men dribble and can get stuff on the seat or near the toilet, I'm not talking about the normal dribbling I'm talking about SS out and out pissing on the floor no where near the toilet because he was mad about something. This is something animals do to mark their space.

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