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Well most of you know that I am new here, but I posted a blog yesterday....I have a one year old and my C-section is next week! My DH ex wife decided to not allow thier 2 sons to come over anymore for a while...Ok this made me upset because I felt she was trying to separate me and my husband by only allowing him to visit the kids anywhere besides our home, and I told my husband he just wont be able to see them because we are a family and if she has concerns she is more than welcome to sit down with us and have a talk. But she declines....So guess what!
We are now waiting for graduation and the gravy train is half over!!!! yea i made it with one of them!!! ss15 will be the bigger accomplishment if i make it that long.
happy bday *now ss18!!!
Here we are...2 six weeks until the end of the school year. DH has said all school year that he would not pay for SD to attend summer school again this year (he just paid for her to go to summer school last summer). But, he found a way to pay for it in a round about way. Yesterday, he informed me that he told SD that she would pay for summer school herself. How? Her savings account. Her savings account that only he and his parents deposit money into. Her savings account that she doesn't have access to and never thinks of and therefore, doesn't seem real to her.
Claiming that SD5 wanted a picture of her. Her hair and make-up were done and she was angling the camera so you couldn't see any of her fat parts. Smh.. your daughter, who calls you by your first name to everyone but you (and half the time to you too), does NOT want a picture of you trying to look slutty. Dumb.
My baby is 2 and a half years old, and just did his first no2 in the potty. Yipee.
So Ss and sd have been sataying with dh since sd was 6months and ss was5.
BM has never paid anything towards them, not once, no CS. DH never went to court to get anything from her.
Well, this weekend SS24 is moving to his BM, guessed what the cow did last night.
She phoned DH to ask if he will help to pay towards SS, cause she will have to buy more of everything now, and she doenst see how she will get through a month now.
I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who have come on here and openly shared your own "wonderful" experinces. I have lived 6 years with all these feelings and emotions boiling up inside. Feeling so alone and so horrible for having such awful thoughts and feelings about my skids. Being on here and being able to express my TRUE feelings is just so incredibly invigorating. I feel like this heavy burden has been lifted. So once again THANK YOU 
LOL. Its funny how as a SM you don't even have to really do anything and you are just so evil. Me, on the other hand, I am evil. Maybe evil is too harsh a word...umm...nope that would be right. I am a BM to 4 kids (5,6,8,10). Of course before I got with my husband I only had 3. The youngest one is ours together. Anyway, when it was just myself and my kids, things were good. BD made his once a month visit and the rest of the time, left well enough alone. My life in the past 6 years has been so awful. His precious kids have made my life HELL.
I found this forum today and I was so relieved to find that I was not alone in the problems I am having with my stepdaughter.
I need some advice and I wanted to ask fellow stepparents who understand how children can emotionally blackmail their parents what I should do in this situation. I especially need advice on how to convince my husband to put our marriage first and that he needs to get rid of this girl for the sake of the rest of the family.
This is a rather complicated, and I’m embarrassed to talk about this to any of my friends.
F$^*@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok.. i feel better. these people are about to drive me bat shit crazy. i'm like 2/3 certifiable right now.
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