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I'm still here, am going to stay until we can get through cancer and counseling. I am giving this a last go. I told him and we signed a contract - as if a marriage license isn't enough - that if he contacts her again HE IS OUT ALONG WITH HIS SPAWN. If he was open to me about getting in touch with her about ss16 once in awhile that would be one thing but he is texting her and then keeping it a secret - so not good. I am curious what the counselor is going to say.
BM has been telling some of my good friends who I attend church with that I had sexual contact with DH while they were still married. She also said that we started a serious relationship that tore apart her marriage. :jawdrop: None of this is true. Yes I knew DH while they were still married I met him in scripture study so I knew his face but we never even as much as sat next to each other. It wasn't until after he divorced her that we even began talking and even then it was just a refreshing friendship that led to talks over brunch once a week.
SO we went to a movie today, (FDH and I both took the day off to have a long weekend)
And the line up at the theater (FDH, SS10, SD8, SD12, ME)
Then FDH tried to reach over all the kids to hold my hand over their heads.
I ignored him, then SD12 said "Dad is trying to hold your hand"
I responded, "If Dad had sat next to me he could have held my hand."
Hi, so I am going to get straight to the point because this is eating from the inside out. I am so stressed out and I would appreciate anyone's opinions. I have been dating a man who is a bit older than me for over 4 years. He has a 12 y/o daughter who is a wonderful and caring and quirky and the last 3 years have been great. But for the last year things have been rocky. Last Thanksgiving my bf and I decided that we wanted to get married and have more children. He sat down with his daughter and told her what our decision was and she did not take it well.
BM sure is rocking the MOTY lately.
I just walked by SD's room and noticed the reading light was on. So I walked over to her bed to turn it off and noticed it was pointed at the wall. And there on the wall she had written a bunch of names of anime characters! Seriously? She's not 4 years old, she's TWELVE!
I am pissed. I took a pic and will be emailing it to FDH to explain he needs to call her right now and ask her to explain herself. She also needs to plan to clean it herself when she comes next time.
I guess this is what she did in response to my foiling her attempt to steal back her computer last night.
Hello Everyone,
Who is unhappy with their job?
I have a lot of time to sit at my desk and think and in that time I am immersed with plenty of work to keep my hands busy lol. But not my mind!
Dear BM,
It doesn't matter how nice you are to me today with your sweet conversational texts, I will not convince DH that it's a good idea to let you take SS back two days early.
So again SD12 is causing drama in the household due to her being BM’s BFF again. SO BM’s ex-fiancé is saying crap about her at BM’s “friend’s house”. This is sooo high school that I couldn’t stand to even hear the drama!
We live in Canada and our child agreement with BM is pretty loose-y goose-y...
She's given every second weekend, alternating easter and Christmas's, and six weekends in summer and such times as agreed upon by the parties from time to time... agreement not unreasonably withheld
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