Wednesday was our night to have SD. It was the first night DH has had visitation in months that SD didn't have some practice/game or therapy appointment to attend so SD was actually doing her homework. If you read my last post BM has decided that at 12 SD is now learning disabled and has ADD b/c she hasn't been doing homework and her grades are reflecting that.
I knew at some point BM would switch up therapists b/c the current therapist was meeting with DH every other visit and the therapist I'm sure started catching on to the real problem....BM! Anyways, DH just forwarded me texts from BM. Now BM wants to know if our secondary insurance covers pediatric psychology b/c hers doesn't. Funny not that long ago she was complaining about my insurance being crappy and worthless. I have a federal employee health benefit plan. It isn't crap. It is the best insurance I have ever had.
Well I haven't blogged in a while but I'm still around reading and commenting. Anyways, I thought I would make this shocking update. At least it is shocking to me. SD managed to make it through her field hockey season injury free. She still has softball so we shall see. I'm not sure how it happened. Maybe she got tired of people calling her out on her fake injuries for attention. Maybe because she only played like 5 minutes in each game (or not at all) or maybe because she actually liked it and didn't want to get out of it like she did cheer....IDK but it is a miracle! LOL!
We called the cops on stupid BM this weekend. She decided to try to punish DH for his "shitty attitude"....his response to her shitty attitude really....here is the just of it. We were supposed to meet to get SD at 10:30. He confirmed the same neutral location we always use b/c when she is being spiteful (and has been lately) she uses the agreement which states her parents home. Anyways, she states "neutral place, you're lucky I went to church today"....and of course stupid DH says, "and you're lucky I give her back an hour early" b/c we have been doing that as well "for SD's sake" obvi
I knew this was going to happen. DH now goes to every other therapist appointment with SD. The therapist is now seeing DH's side as well as BM's made up side of things. Well go figure BM is now telling DH he has to rearrange his next appointment b/c she signed SD up for field hockey. You know sports obviously trump parenting time and mental health issues if you are a GUBM trying to control your ex husband still....right!?!?!?!
I also predict she will either switch therapist soon or decide SD doesn't need the therapist anymore.
Last night BM informed DH that SD had bypassed her parental locks on social media by going to the website for IG instead and she created a IG account. She found all these private messages that SD (12) initiated with older men and women talking about how she is pansexual and talking about BJs and telling these people her name, location, age, etc. I'm not surprised. When she had musically before I found a video of her provocatively dancing. The girl has been desperate for attention since I met her. The fake injuries, the faking taking meds to stay worse and now this comes to light. I th
If your child or skid had MRSA would you take them around other families/children/babies while they still had open sores?!?! Just curious what others think about this.....
SD developed a staph infection from a bad spider bite and then swimming in a gross lake while we were camping (apparently the bacteria in the lake infected the bite). Anyways, anytime either of my children or even if I am sick SD stays at BM so she doesn't get sick. Also in the CO it states that BM keeps SD if she is sick. Well I'm thinking staph infection equals sick so she should stay with BM and not spread her disease to my 2 boys. I tried nicely telling DH this morning several times it would be best if she stayed at BM's tonight.
On Wednesday we got new carpet so we had to clear out the kids rooms. DH found to "suicide" notes in SD's room under her bed I guess. Now if you have read my previous blogs you already know that my SD is an attention whore. I think she has now done all the attention grabbing things possible. Fake injuries, fake bullies, loud/interrupts, does tricks, uses my younger son as a puppet for tricks, claimed she thought she was gay when she isn't, and now the suicide notes. I know that I sound evil not being sympathetic to these letters but even BM viewed this as an attention plow. Pretty bad
Yesterday was SD's bday and she also had a softball game. It was only her 2nd game of the season due to all the rain. The weather was gorgeous and I had decided I would go to 1 game (mainly to see if it was as bad as cheer). I figured what better day than her bday with beautiful weather?!?!?