Results are in!
SD does not have COVID. Now that little bit of drama can take a rest but I have a feeling it will happen again.
Now onto other SD news. DH sends me some texts she sent him yesterday during the day (when she is supposed to be doing her virtual school) telling him that she "came out" to BM. Well as far as I know this is at least the 3rd time she's "come out" to DH and her mother. I'm sure I've mentioned it in previous journals. I used to think that she might actually be a lesbian and I have no issues if she is. The issue I'm having now is that it seems to be just another SD attention seeking game.
After work BM texts DH telling him that SD is grounded from her phone and if he wants to talk to SD he has to do it through BM. SD is 16 missing assignments and was "being mouthy" so she took her phone until Fri. Kind of seems to me like BM was mad that she "came out" again and was punishing. I agree that SD should have consequences for not doing her work and missing assignments but how in the world did BM the "reading specialist" at a SCHOOL not monitor this better? In our area and BM's we all have ProgressBook where you can go in at any time and see what is missing and grades for your student etc. I get notifications when my son hasn't turned anything in and I don't wait until he has 16 missing assignments to address it! Also, taking SD's phone is BM's go to punishment but I've yet to see positive results from this punishment.
Also, just in case anyone is overly sensitive/offended easily I want to make it clear that if SD is indeed a lesbian/gay/pansexual/whatever she choses to identify with I will not treat her any different and I will support her.