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Submitted by newmom01 on Mon, 10/31/2011 - 12:44pm

sooo STUPID DH thought it would be ok since I WAS NOT HOME, to have bm drop off kids since he had just gotten off of work and was too tired to go get them! I chewed his butt so good for that crap I was pissed! He let it slip when I called him to see what he was doing he was still half sleep and said "trying to keep the noise down kids are down stairs" and I said oh you went and got them already, then he said no "she" dropped them off !!!!!!!

I felt my temp go sky high! my heart started beating fast....
I told him that after that picture stunt I dont want her nowhere near my house or on my street! And when dh left to go to store, I asked them if thier mom }:) "left a bag" when she "came in" }:)

and the little one said no she just put down XXXX thier little sister!!!!!! The B**** came into my house and bought her daughter too!

im still mad, and dh thinks that since he apologized then we should be all good, BUT then he says the kids are lying she did not come in

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Mon, 10/31/2011 - 1:13pm

OH My! I have told SO that Crazo is never allowed inside the house. NO matter what.
I would be angry too!

I am so sorry for you.

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Submitted by shayj on Mon, 10/31/2011 - 1:17pm

I've had this happen to me as well. I came home and found a can of enfamil inthe trash. At the time, DH and I did not have any kids of our own. SO the ex came in and made her child (from another relationship) some milk when she dropped off the step kids. I feel that my home is sacred and I just did not want her to enter my home as I would never enter hers.

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Submitted by giveitago on Mon, 10/31/2011 - 6:34pm

BM turned the door handle and came in uninvited! DH and I were in bed, movie time (shut up!) and SD was taking her precious time getting ready again. I was a bit annoyed at DH because rather than tell BM something he told SD that it was a pretty shitty thing her mom did, just to walk into our house like that. I know the message will get accross but I really would rather have said it my own self... I got 'do not rock the boat ****** or there'll be hell to pay' BAH!
DH did, however have to call the police to have her removed from our property one day. We'd said that SD could only go with her if she was doing both trips. SD was on probation, with a curfew and an officer who came to drug test her randomly and a tracker who came to check she was home by curfew. BM arrives, SD is not ready. Tracker arrives, to get the information from BM as to her whereabouts and to get a tracker set up for BM's house. BM flips out, says she cannot do both trips. DH tells SD to go back inside and he's sorry but no can do with the visit. BM totally freaks out, tracker does her 'de escalation' thing and even that did not work. DH told her to get off our property or he'd call the police...she defied him so...police arrive and she jumps into her car as soon as she see them. Between the police and the tracker they made her see sense, they arranged that BM would bring her in on the Monday morning to school, SD was at an alternative school, and we said OK to that. SD and I had our arms around each other, she was actually afraid she'd been the cause of all this...NO girl, you are not responsible for your mother's craziness.
Now, ask me why I do not want this woman anywhere near my house?? Still...SS 18 brought her last week and parked her in our driveway. SS lives with her now and he'd been out with her, he had to pick up some papers for school so fair enough, he was driving. He left her in the car and she stayed there!
The tables are turned now, we have the big house and yard now, we started in a one bedroom apartment while she had the big house and she'd call us the trolls who lived under the stairs (fire escape ladders). It could all be taken away from us overnight, nature is unpredictable, but we are thankful for what we have now.

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Submitted by B22S22 on Mon, 10/31/2011 - 6:40pm

One day I walked out of my bedroom and almost ran right smack into BM as she WALKED UP THE STAIRS... apparently she was "following" the boys to their room??!!?? One other time she dropped off the skids - DH had answered the door, the skids came inside and went upstairs. 10 min later I heard her VOICE upstairs talking to them (we have a loft area that opens up from the 2nd floor into the family room where we were sitting).

I told DH either HE gets rid of her in his own way, or I get rid of her in my own way. And either way, she BETTER know not to EVER step foot in this house again.

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Submitted by Rags on Tue, 11/01/2011 - 2:48pm

Ha!Q Biggrin

My FIL would not allow DickHead on the farm when my DW and DickHead were breaking up and battling for custody of SS.

FIL told him if he set foot inside the fence line that the deer rifle would drop him in his tracks. FIL actually put a couple of rounds in to a fence post near DickHeads car one time when DickHead parked in the entrance to the drive way. DickHead moved the car in to the road. }:)

The drive was was ~500yds long so it was a hell of a shot to hit the fence post and it scared the shit out of dickhead. Too bad FILs aim was not off that day. }:)