So tnite I received a text from SD 29 ( see previous posts ) apologizing  because DH told her to, she claims all her toxic vile nasty behaviour was due to her upbringing ( mine was way worse & I never behaved that way ) & that she's bipolar and suffer post traumatic stress hense why she states she was so brutal.

So following on my last post I went to the .memorial yesterday with DH, SS & DIL & yes SD was there. As I predicted she didn't acknowledge me said hello to DH then started idol gossip about nanna ( DH mother ) my horrible nasty mother in-law which he is now is contact with after 4 years also as she's apparently not well anyway I totally disengaged  I gave her nothing I felt very uncomfortable most of evening but chatted with fake SIL quickly then friends.

DH decided to take me away camping yesterday for a night sounded great. We packed up feeling great left at lunch time for our 1 hour trip up the river. Half way there his phone rings it's SD he dosnt answer she calls again he ignores it he's driving I swear it's like she's always known when were having a good time or celebrating something bam there she is.

Regarding my previous post I have told DH where I stand with SD he claims he understands how I feel but his issue seems to be more with SD foster child 8 she took  the child on at the age of 3, between the age of 3 to 4 we saw her around 6 times but SD would always accuse me of not treating her right & the last straw came when we had her on her 4th birthday & she rung asking him what was I doing to her have I hurt her ( we both are with child I took care of her no different to how we love and treat our other beautiful grandbabys ) this was when I said enough we cut contact I told he