It's been a while since my last post and honestly haven't logged on often due to MASSIVE improvements in our life at home! We now get SD EOW Fri-Sun + off days and it's worked out so smoothly for everyone. We have time to spend together after hectic work weeks and also are able to plan plenty of fun things for when SD comes over. DH is much more comprehensive and open minded and I feel that we have never been better! My relationship with SD has also improved so much.
This year I had decided I would do my best to make this father's day unforgettable for DH, mostly because it is the first one as a father to our baby boy. His first first father's day was terrible, around 8 years ago. BM cheated and falsely accused him of aggravated assault, got him put in jail, all that. On his first father's day. So I decided I wanted to give him an actual positive, if not THE BEST 1st dad's day, with me and our son.
For those of you who read my last blog, I just wanted to let y'all know that we were FINALLY able to make an agreement with BM about our custody schedule. I had first proposed to DH we do an EOW schedule plus a night or two a week for dinners. He liked the idea and was willing to compromise. As he texted BM to try to come to an agreement with her, she simply refused to listen to whatever DH had to say, simply because she preffered he call her instead. We had formulated a perfectly clear message stating what we were asking.
So we're back at it with the SD visitations EVERY weekend. *help* I know, exhausting.
I haven't been logging for the past couple weeks and could not help but notice that several posters who where quite active before, have suddenly disappeared. Did I miss something? Were people deleted?
So I know this is a bit new, considering my awful situation as a stepmom. *dash1*
so after almost 2 months, SD came back over.. I know, I know, this is NOT the time for kid swaps, trust me, I KNOW and wish she wasn't here. BM threw a fit and to shut her up I guess we picked her up. (She will be going back home TONIGHT.) My first mother's day will not be ruined. *dance4*
So, TX Gov. Announced this morning that schools are now closed for the remainder of the 2019-2020 school year .
What's going on in your city?
So with all the Covid-19 stuff going on, and my inability to leave my home lol, boredom has really struck me bad. I don't know how many of you guys' stepkids have their own rooms in your homes, well SD8 had hers here too. So here's the thing, DS is turning 7 months in about a week and DH and I decided that we wanted him to sleep in a separate room by the time he's 1. He's been really good at sleeping in his own crib and is very independent for his age. So due to all the boredom lol, I decided the "extra" room would no longer be kept as a shrine to DHs little princess any longer!
Why do these bitches continue to try to manipulate and control their ex's lives? We have this issue all the damn time, and then because I no longer allow her to have a say in "what goes or doesn't" in MY home, she starts bullshitting at my DH saying "why are you letting others fill your mind with crap" (me) LOL, bitch, it's crap that I don't allow my husband to continue kissing your ass? OK.
The Corona virus has in some way benefit us I requested DH that his kid stays at BM to avoid any potential spread of the disease in my home and here's a shocker- he agreed! He had ME text BM to let her know of OUR decision,(I think he was afraid to lol) and she didn't fight back once! (Wow)
So I got to spend my whole weekend Skid FREE and we've had a blast together. Not to mention, our anniversary is tomorrow so we get to do all kinds of stuff (at home) together.