This year I had decided I would do my best to make this father's day unforgettable for DH, mostly because it is the first one as a father to our baby boy. His first first father's day was terrible, around 8 years ago. BM cheated and falsely accused him of aggravated assault, got him put in jail, all that. On his first father's day. So I decided I wanted to give him an actual positive, if not THE BEST 1st dad's day, with me and our son. His favorite breakfast, matching baby and dad "our first father's day" t-shirts, new shoes, sandals, a personalized gift basket made by me *blush* a GIANT balloon delivered to our home "world's best daddy". Home made cheesecake, church, dinner at his favorite restaurant. The list goes on! He loved it, I loved it. SD was here as well (on our way to drop her off now) she didn't even bother to make him a card, nothing. And yes I reminded her several times before.