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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 10/02/2019 - 7:43am

DH is Navy and we will either retire if he doesn't make rank (24 yrs in)  or be moving in 3 years. Either way, I have no desire to stay in our current location.

Another Blog got me thinking

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 09/30/2019 - 6:50am

Advice.only2 mentioned something about turning all of the court docs into a book for skids.

Can you imagine if we published a book. We would have to summarize to one chapter each, but it could be like a ghost stories book. A collection of short stories to help other future SM's. It would be terrifying for most to read, because what many of us go through "doesn't really happen" or no one can believe it! But imagine throwing in case numbers and the whole 9! 

A cautionary tale for SM's to be. It Should/could be a top bridal registry seller! *ROFL*

Trying really hard to not get consumed in SS drama

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 09/19/2019 - 12:10pm

Y'all. We finally got the paperwork from our attorney for this damn Journal Entry to "solidify" visitation with SS since BM's attorney ONCE AGAIN isn't doing his job. I swear to DOG I am going to file a complaint with the bar. 

Just reading the order has me pissed off 6 ways to sunday. Just seeing some of the things in that order again, which because the judge in podunk hasn't got a set of balls and won't do his actual job and hear a case, it makes me want to vomit. 

Contempt again...

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 09/03/2019 - 11:15am

Welp. Here we go again.

DH and I are not flying out for this or anything but we told the lawyer to file. We can be present via teleconference like we have done in the past.

BM will not respond about holiday time, still. No word on the 5 weeks of make up time. She will not respond to anything- not even if she got SS his military ID . She will not let DH have a 1st day of school picture. NOTHING.

She has not turned in her income or bank statements. She is still lying about her job. 

Fighting the panic attack

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Sat, 08/24/2019 - 3:25pm

My SIL texted me a little while ago asking if we had dates worked out for SS coming out for the holiday's and if DH had been able to have his court ordered facetimes. Of course the answer is no to both.

BM won't respond for coordinating dates. SS didn't answer the last 2 calls DH made, and due to his current location (middle of the ocean) couldn't make last weeks or this coming weeks calls. 

Thank you!

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 08/21/2019 - 10:32am

I just wanted to say a quick thank you to everyone who commented on my blog about SS19 yesterday.

I readjusted my thinking, talked to him about the changes we were going to make. He bucked at first but came around and we had a pleasant evening once the dust settled.

SS19 done messed up again, and again

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 08/20/2019 - 10:54am

I have written about SS19 before but for those who dont know/remember- he is Autistic, bi-bolar, ADHD and has Anxiety disorder. We get along well, but he messes up sometimes.

So on Saturday he didn't wake up with his alarms. I smacked his door at 7:40am (has to be at work at 8:00) told him to get his butt up. I drove him and he made it in the nick of time.

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