So... DH and I have decided to go ahead with buying a home. I am a nervous wreck because I KNOW in 3 years we are moving and it seems like so much added stress to have to deal with. I have been to see a few houses already, and DH and I are going to see a few more. 

I found one that I LOVE!! It is 5 bedrooms and has a full in-law suite with kitchen. The problem is... there is an in-ground pool. While we are cool with it, I can't imagine renting a house with a pool for tenants to f*** up. It could cost thousands! Plus I don't even know what the liability insurance would be. 

I guess she sent SS19 (special needs) a flurry of texts a couple of days ago about him "knowing the truth". She sent a bunch of screenshots of 1 GAL report (out of the 10 or so that they had) where this one thought BM1 should have regular visitation. The rest all said supervised or none at all. This report was from when he was 7. 

DD12 has had migraines since she was probably 8. They weren't frequent, maybe 1-2 a month. Then all of a sudden they have been almost daily since mid-August. She has been on all the standard rx's (Imitrex, Zomig, Maxalt) they don't even touch them. We were told to go to the ER last week because she had one that was still going strong after 24 hrs. She freaked and we waited a whole other day (started thurs and went in Sat). 

DH is supposed to be called for SS14's parent teacher conferences that are "student lead" tomorrow at 10 am. BM is supposedly going to be present. 

Taking bets on SS showing up?

BM allowing it once she gets there?

SS even talking?

This is such a shit show... 

DH text to me: "I don't matter to her and she wants me to not matter to him"

me: "You matter, my love. If you didn't, she wouldn't be so afraid to lose him to you. This is all really her insecurities in her ability to be the favored parent in SS's eyes"