I guess she sent SS19 (special needs) a flurry of texts a couple of days ago about him "knowing the truth". She sent a bunch of screenshots of 1 GAL report (out of the 10 or so that they had) where this one thought BM1 should have regular visitation. The rest all said supervised or none at all. This report was from when he was 7.
We explained some things to him about all the other reports and told him that there was never any doubt that his mother loved/loves him. She just has never been stable, sober, or on her psychiatric meds long enough to be in his life. He said he understood.
We also preemptively warned him about the "rape". We have a feeling that will be her next move after this didn't work. She claims that DH raped her because she was 16 and he was 18 and it was a one nighter in a corn field after graduation. BM lied to DH and said she went to a different school and had just graduated too. She also insisted they get married as soon as she found out she was pregnant but DH was on his way to boot camp so it took a few months for him to be able to marry her (like the good little church boy he was). BM has 8 other kids, custody of none. BM's SM said that she has accused all of the fathers of rape as soon as she gets mad at them because they leave her crazy ass. We told him to please don't take our work for it, just call "Grandma P" and she will tell you. It is just what his mom does...
He said he didn't need to, that he knows his mom is just crazy. Then he left the room. I feel so bad for him. As crazy as he drives me this is the shit that makes me really want to move forward with the adult adoption.