A little background.

SD called DH to tell him that a boy, age 17, raped and choked her one night.  SD refused to file charges. The boy went on social media bragging about it.   She invited the boy back into the home a couple of nights later and had sex with him again. The boy even came back the next morning for sex again.  There was a video that BM's oldest daughter (not DH's child) sent the DH.  SD is in her room with a tshirt and underwear laughing with this boy.  DH rushed to BM's house, confronted the boy,  and called the police.  DH talked SD into going to the hospital for the "rape" testing and filed charges with the police. Keep in mind this isn't the first time she has stated that she was raped.  This is only the first time charges have been filed. 

My last update I stated that SD (age 17) says the boy that "raped" her was going to be arrested.  I have just been sitting back listening to DH but not really saying much to him about it.  It seems that IF he was arrested it would not have been  for the "rape" charge but  maybe for violating the 3 day restraining order.  DH said that SD said she had a court date the first of August.  I know, that isn't  for the "rape".  The dectective said it would take weeks to get the information off of both SD's and the boy's computers.  Around here, it could take MONTHS for a rape charge to go to trial.  Keep in mind that both parents are letting SD talk to the detective and they are getting information from her.  I am not sure why they do that.  They both admit that SD lies about things.  Of course, she would NEVER lie about any of this in their minds.

BM took SD to another state for vacation last week.  It has been a quiet couple of days until yesterday.  SD calls DH screaming and crying.  She wants DH to come get her.  DH told her that he couldn't.  BM and BM's sister are yelling at her.  SD went online and bought a $500.00 computer from Amazon and told BM that DH was giving her a computer for her birthday.  SD used BM's debit card AGAIN without her permission.  BM was threatening to press charges on SD and take away her precious cell phone.  The cell phone that SD used BM's credit card to buy without permission about a year ago.  DH talked BM into letting SD keep the phone and use it as an "award"  for good behavior. (eye roll)  I kept telling DH that SD didn't need to be awared with a phone, computer or a tablet.  She was sending naked pictures of herself online since she was 12 years old, she was busted online with child molestors MULTIPLE times, she invited guys over for sex MULTIPLE times.  I just can't comprehend why it would have been a good idea to give her more access to the internet.  DH thinks it would be a good way for SD to build trust with BM and DH.*ROFL*

BM threatens everytime SD uses her credit card that she will press charges and she never does.  I have lost track of how many times SD has  used BM's card.  SD will tell BM that whatever she orders online, that DH bought it for her.  BM isn't the greatest in keeping with with her balance so there are times SD can use the card and not get caught.   

DH told me last night that he will be going over to BM's house today to discuss the "stolen charges" on the credit card.  DH is so upset that this will keep SD from testifying at the "rape" trial and he doesn't want SD to lose her phone.  SD sends DH a text every now and then and he is all warm and fuzzy about that. Prior to her getting her own phone, she rarely contacted DH.  SD just loves to remind DH that IF she didn't have the phone, she couldn't contact him.  She could use BM's phone to contact DH.  

I am called the EVIL SM because I will not allow SD and her drama into my house.  BM  just does not understand why I am not just jumping for joy that SD may want to come here for a visit to see her father.  Of course, SD doesn't want to be around me.  She doesn't like my rules. I am not a fan of having strangers over for sex or child molestors knowing my home address.  BM has told DH that he needs to get his b@lls back from me.   I love my QUIET and PEACEFUL home and I am not trading it for any of this drama.  I am constantly thanking my 3 grown kids for not causing any of this type of drama.  They each had their moments, they were punished, and my home wasn't disrupted with drama.