Something really festering in my head is this video that BM recorded of SS saying he wasn't coming out for Christmas. Has anyone ever had anything like that brought up in court?

The judge told SS that he didn't get to make this choice, that his dad has done nothing to deserve having visitation stopped and that they need to work on a healthy relationship when we were in court over the summer. 

He texted DH at 1 am saying "I not coming. You wasted your money. Have fun with all that time off for nothing"

Yep. That's what my wonderful husband got to see. He is such a horrible little shit over text. When DH was face timing him 4 days ago it was "leaving for the airport at 3 am" "Mom is going to text you things on my Xmas list that she didn't get".

DH has court ordered Tuesday night facetime calls. SS15 hasn't answered since mid- October. We are going back for 3 contempt charges and this is just one more issue we filed about... Anyway, he actually answered last night! He really didn't talk but he did say that they were leaving for the airport at 3 am Saturday for his 6 am flight that we purchased. The last 2 flights we booked, he never got on. He is alienated beyond belief.

*** Update**** - CPS is on the way. My niece finally reached out to me. She is freaking out. I know I did the right thing but I still have this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. I just keep looking at that baby's bruised up face. I don't need any of this shit in my life. I feel like I need to block them all from my phone and my facebook and just ghost them all. I have enough stress with my own family and my SS. I don't need this too but I couldn't just not do anything.

If you need to read back on my last blog please do.