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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 05/21/2012 - 8:50am

So after this weekend i have thought alot about the blogs I read and have decided not to leave here and DH home with SD is not a good idea.

I went home Friday and had a long talk with DH and told him for this to work with SD they need to not live with me. It was a hard thing to say but I hate going home, I expect the worse to happen, I am a positive person and am turning into a negative person because something always happens.

I wish i was making this up

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 11:52am

I really wish I was making this up but unfortunately I am not. I love my DH. My SD, NO, and I wish things were all normal and happy and great. bUt they are not.

People think by saying leave, screw this, it is an easy thing. As some know it is not. It is very easy to say it but doing it is another story. No one sees you at home crying in your room alone.

I thank all for your posts. I come here to vent and try to feel better about my situation, which most of the time I do.

SD told DH and I her college plans......OMFG!!!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Fri, 05/18/2012 - 9:42am

I don't even know where to start. Things went ok last night. SD of course sat with us in the living room, which ok whatever, then she decided to tell us her plans for college.

Now her plans awhile ago were to go away to college, which of course I was thrilled and told her I would help her in anyway. I actually started putting some folders together for her. This way next year she could go over the folders see what colleges we will be visiting and take it from there. This is what i did for BS21.

BS21 just called me

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Wed, 05/16/2012 - 3:27pm

SO DH came home and SD16 was already home. BS21 over SD saying I want to stay here. I don't want to go to grandma's.

BS thought for sure here we go. Well he was wrong. DH told her...SM and I need at least one night a week at home with just us. SS21 and SS14 go to there grandma's tonight to, I am sorry if you want to continue living here we need this. SD16 says...I know your right I just hate going there....

OK IDK what else happened at MIL's but HOLY SHIT :jawdrop:

update....here we go again...I KNOW!!!!

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Tue, 05/15/2012 - 9:06am

I think these people all need help!!!!

Last night I got home and DH was on the deck drinking a beer waiting for me while SD16 was in the house :jawdrop: ...HELL NO!!!!

I said hello and went inside to drop my stuff off. SD's bag was on the dining room table, her ipod on the kitchen counter, and her shoes under the table. WTF!!! So I go outside, on my way my oldest son says...there back mom....Oh no there not!!!

SD16 just text me

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Submitted by daisy0202 on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 2:17pm

So just got a text from Sd. I didnt block her number because any nasty texts I want DH to see first hand so i never blocked that number. Her text was....Can i come for dinner Wed?

No wed is DH and I date night with no children home at all. My BS14 stays at my moms on wed now. I didnt answer but the more I think about things and the more alone time I have at home i realize I do not want this child back at my house and do not know how to tell DH this. I want to stay like this until she goes away to college (I hope)....Is that horrible?

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