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BS21 just called me

daisy0202's picture

SO DH came home and SD16 was already home. BS21 over SD saying I want to stay here. I don't want to go to grandma's.

BS thought for sure here we go. Well he was wrong. DH told her...SM and I need at least one night a week at home with just us. SS21 and SS14 go to there grandma's tonight to, I am sorry if you want to continue living here we need this. SD16 says...I know your right I just hate going there....

OK IDK what else happened at MIL's but HOLY SHIT :jawdrop:


3familiesIn1's picture

Maybe MIL wasn't so fun to live with vs visit? Maybe MIL got a little tired of SD herself....

smdh's picture

A job would be a great idea! ORRR she can learn to stay alone. I mean at 16 she is more than capable of being home alone for a few hours, isn't she?

imthewife's picture

Granted SD has put you through some MAJOR hell...I think it is sad that the kid has to leave to give you two some time.

This is a huge problem with these biomoms...SD has a biomom but she cannot go over to her house? That just drives me nuts. Naturally...any girl should be with her mother at least 50% in a situation like this.

I know, because my SD19's mom cut out on us and it was IMPOSSIBLE to get any time alone...yet these women call themselves "the mother of the child" really is a joke...

Grandparent's should not be getting the brunt of these maladjusted kids. And I agree with the above poster...maybe grandma doesn't make it so fun...on purpose!

daisy0202's picture

SD16 is 6 going on 7 not 16 going on 17. I have no idea why she needs a sitter, it is ridiculous but with her anxiety and issues SD does not like to be alone and will not do it.

BM, that is a whole other story, way to long. BM could give a good shit for her but every now and then SD will go see her. She went to see her for mothers day and was gone 2 hours. When she came back she was not happy. They fight everytime they are together. It is very sad!