UNREAL!!!! So i get a call from DH who tells me we have to meet a little later because SD is going for her license tomorow and wants to go driving so he is going to take her driving and then will meet with me....

My response: DONT BOTHER!!!!! This is why we are where we are. Our relationship is on the balance here and again you are putting me off. Thats fine you obviously do not have time for a wife so lets just stop here before I get any more hurt than I am. and I hung up....He text me: please dont be this way what am I suppose to do....

well when I got home again was still upset DH and I got into a big brawl again and I asked him to leave and maybe we need a break. He was upset but took SD and left. This morning he called me we tried to talk but again blow out! He tells me I am sweating the small stuff and he doesnt know what I want....I want to be your wife not have your daughter be your wife....Why doesnt he get it????

So at lunch time I get a call from DH who wants to discuss tonight...

He tells me SD really wants to go MIL's for his birthday and she already has dinner planned. I tell him that is fine but I am sorry I am not going. We did not even get to discuss this prior and I think this is ridiculous that a 16 year old tells us what we are going to do. If you want her to tell you what to do go right ahead but you will be doing this with just her I am not having this.

Now Wed. SD usually stays at grandmas so DH and i can have some alone time. (my son is MIA always) So just got a text from DH that SD is not going today because she is having a bad day at school and needs daddy time. :jawdrop: you had him to yourself for 9 freakin days....

If I knew then what I know now.....F^&% this!!!!!

I love my DH but has anyone every thought love just isnt enough to have to deal with this shit that never gets better????