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Having a SM SD dinner and shopping tonight...

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So I do alot of me and my boys days..I take my boys alot of places but in the 5 years I have been with DH I have never taken a SD day without my boys...Well things have been going very well since all our drama 2 weeks ago and SD is getting closer and closer to me....So I decided (when my friends changed plans for tonight) to see if she would like a night of dinner at a very fancy place and shopping afterwards (I am taking BS14 away in April and he needs bathing suits) so I offered it to SD (BS14 is with BF this weekend)...Well she was so excited she said yes right away.

sitting at work agravated!!!!

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I am just so upset with DH today...he called me on lunch, earlier than usual, he knows I am upset....But yet he says nothing about it at lunch...Talks about his day and how my day is....Talks about whats for supper....blah blah blah....But yet in the back of my mind I am just thinking about this morning and how upset i am that he has poured everything on me and i am just supposed to sit back and take it becuase I am the woman....NO!!!!

Not understanding...Need advice!

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Well things have definately took a turn for the better with SD16...Since that complete horror show we had last weekend SD16 has been soooo different. She has been helping me, she has been so nice, its like having a different kid. We went out sat night and SD16 and BS14 stayed home. Sd did not make a big deal like she usually does. Sunday we had a cooking day and Sd16 was with me all day. Sat and sunday she was also with me all day. We went for a walk, went shopping, cooked, it was so nice for a change. DH was out sat till about 12 then home for the rest of the weekend.

WHAT A WEEKEND!!!!!!!!

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Well I had a few days off and didn't blog for awhile so this might be a little long...SORRY!!!

So the week went pretty well. SD16 had dad all week, I kind of backed off so she could get her fix and go to BM for the 4 days as planned...Well that bit me in the ass...

Thursday she went to BM as planned, that night went off without a hitch. Then Friday came as I perdicted....Well a little worse than i had even dreamed...

One more day of SD16 and then she goes to BM for 4 days, I HOPE!!!!

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So yesterday at dinner I was in the middle of a story with DH about work and SD16 chimes in with her day...OK I am all for conversation at the dinner table but I was right in the middle of talking....So then my DH starts paying attention to her talking....My mouth just kind of dropped...and then the best thing happened...My BS14 said "HEY SD, my mom was talking to DH wait your turn, how rude" :jawdrop: I COULD NOT BELIEVE IT!!!!!!

Yuck feeling keeps comming back!!!

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So last night DH tells me that SD16 has decided (love when she decides) that she wil be going to BM Thursday and returning on Monday....

Well this is all wonderful, IF IT WOULD HAPPEN!!!! Yes she states she misses BM and wants to hang out....the problem is BM does not GIVE A SHIT to hang with her....So in other words this is what is going to happen...

Good morning everyone....

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Well update on my big day....

The Thursday did not go very well....I got out of work went right to my parents, my BFF's were there, that was great, we had dinner and drinks and some laughs....DH tried calling me a number of times, I didn't even answer...He text me a couple of times..."what is wrong"...He didn't even know what was wrong...i had a good cry before i got to my parents so no one would know...But the puffy eyes told it all...But they all made me laugh and i felt better.

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