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Awesome NIGHT!!!!

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OMG last night was the best night we have had home in a long time!!!!

SD went to GM right from school. My BS14 got his acceptance letter in for the high school he wanted then went to my moms for the night and DH and I had a night filled with (well use imagination)!!!! sorry just so excited it was soooo nice....NO SD16 around made everything better....LOVED IT!!!!!! Need more of this so DH has decided every Wed SD will be staying at GM and maybe Fridays to...OMG PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!

SD going to grandmas tonight.......HEEEEHAAAAAA!!!!!!

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So DH knows i have been stressed about our issues. I have been pretty quite, loosing weight (which is good) but not this way, and just feeling yuck about all this shit. So when i got home last night he tells me can your mom take BS tomorrow night because SD is going to my moms for the night. I was like ahh I'm sure she can why? I think we need some more alone time. Also every Wed. she is going to stay at my moms and maybe Fridays, I think we all need some time apart from SD and maybe this will get her to realize things need to change. I am not sure if this is good or not.

I dont know what to do?

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I am at a loss...I love my DH I really do but I just can not stand all this drama, all this bullshit, I mean when is this going to end? It gets better than it gets horrible....I do not think I should hate going home....I am at work today with a yuck feeling. Then DH calls just to hear my voice and i love that but when I get home it will be all about SD and whatever issue is of the day, and there always is one. By the time i get to talk alone he is already sleeping or half asleep and a conversation is out of the question.

Update on yesterday...

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Well my BS 14 did not win but he did a awesome job. DH and I were so proud.

So when i got home DH talked to me like nothing was wrong so i didnt even bring it up. Was to busy getting BS ready to go by the time I got home to even care where, if or what the hell was going on with SD....So I got BS's stuff together and headed to car. SD put jacket on so I figured great shes comming...

My poor husband....

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My DH called me this afternoon on lunch...I knew by his voice something was wrong...

Guess SD16 called him at work wanted to get picked up from school due to anxiety and not being able to handle it. DH talked to her, the nurse and her counselor. Shes going to therapy, no one has put her on meds yet, he is at the end of his rope. He made her stay in school this morning but then got a call from BM who got a call from SD and she picked her up....GREAT!!!!

GM everyone!!!! I'm back and lots to tell!!!!

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Well it all started Thursday night. We went out for dinner with SD16.

After dinner we decided (wrong move) to go to MIL's. We wanted to drop off SD's things for the weekend this way she did not have to bring it to school with her. Well when we got there we were there a whole 10min before SIL came in (drama begins). My DH and I stay in the basement with FIL (I like him) and SIL never comes down. Well this time she did and explained to DH in these exact words....

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