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daisy0202's picture

Well it all started Thursday night. We went out for dinner with SD16.

After dinner we decided (wrong move) to go to MIL's. We wanted to drop off SD's things for the weekend this way she did not have to bring it to school with her. Well when we got there we were there a whole 10min before SIL came in (drama begins). My DH and I stay in the basement with FIL (I like him) and SIL never comes down. Well this time she did and explained to DH in these exact words....

"I am taking mom to the emergency room, she has been sick all day long and she will not be able to take SD so your trip is off" :jawdrop:

I was beside myself, felt my blood start to boil just looked at DH and was like WTF!!!!

My DH was in a state of shock. Now MIL is cooking dinner, she has not been feeling well and went to Dr. and was waiting for results. Those result were not in and her PCP was not getting back to SIL. Well I am a PA dumb bitch so i ask where she went for blood work and her date of birth. SIL says why? I tell her I can get her results faxed to my work I will call for them check out blood work and maybe save you a trip....if looks could kill I would be dead...She tells me well...welll.welllllll....i called her Dr. and she is getting back to me. So i tell her we will wait with you...Dr. calls blood results are normal but tell SIL go into ER just for a EKG. So SIL takes her to the ER. I ask SIL if she was sick all day why didn't you call Dr. earlier. She tells me MIL did not want to go. So she would rather sit in ER for 8 hours, she just gave me a dirty look. So of course DH is worried sick telling me if she gets admitted we will have to cancel. I was LIVID!!!!!!! I knew SIL did this because of SD16 not wanting us to go.

Long story short she did not get admitted, SIL told DH she should of and i tried but they said it was not necessary (of course it wasnt) but she felt we should still not go just in case. DH disagreed and said mom is fine everything is good MIL told DH keep SD here she can help me thats fine. SIL was bullshit!!!!

So Friday morning we stopped by MIL, she told us she was feeling much better and to have a great time. We left at 9am.....DH was worried and did not shut off phone Friday so of course 9PM got call from SD to see if we were having a good time. DH said yes we are, grandma ok, SD said I think so, DH said good I'm shutting off my phone talk to you Sunday morning. SD said ahhh...ahhh....ahhhh, DH said love you BYE!!!!!!!

I was so happy..Remainder of weekend was AWESOME!!!!! We didn't get back till 7pm Sunday...It was amazing..SD klung the rest of the night with him but at that point I didn't even mind at all....We had an amazing time and made plans for our next one, which isnt till the end of may but thats OK...I'll take it!!!!

It was pretty sad we had to go through sooo much just to get a weekend away.....I do not understand it at all!!!!

Comments

asheeha's picture

so so happy it worked out for you! i don't understand your sil at all! maybe there is a back story i'm missing!

and i'm VERY glad you have plans for another one. get everybody used to this...it's going to be a regular occurrence! sounds like you need it! Smile and it sounds like dh is stepping it up!

forestfairy's picture

YAY! So glad your trip didn't get ruined and you had a great time! Good for DH for turning off the phone.

There was a post going (from Friday if you want to find it), about you and how we were all thrilled we hadn't heard from you and were hopefully having a blast!

GoodbyeNormaJean's picture

Good for you, girl! I've been wondering how your weekend was...I was really glad to see you not on Stalk all weekend, so I figured you at least got to go.

Wow, sounds like SIL is SD's partner in crime. No wonder the kid is messed up.

buckeye mommy's picture

I kept checking for this post. Welcome back, I'm glad you had a great time!

SIL is an evil wench that's just enabling SD to be the way she is. Ugh.

daisy0202's picture

Oh yes...SIL does not like me because DH is happy. She is one of those people who is always miserable and lives on peoples drama....

CrazieCoconut86's picture

So happy to see that you had a great weekend. Now DH needs to tell of SIL and all will be well.

imthewife's picture

You are a PA and your sister in law is stupid enough to try the "mom is sick crap"? Oh wow...DH's family is a piece of work!

How dare she tell you that the trip is off...nice try SIL! What a witch!

Delilah's picture

So glad to hear you weekend went well in the end Smile Perhaps next time have a back up babysitter on stand by in case someone tries to pull a similar stunt again or alternatively ask someone else to have sd. That should make SIL shit a brick with frustration! Blum 3

Got to say your SIL sounds exactly like mine. She wants everyone to be just as miserable as she is, she hated me on sight and went out of her way to try and get DH to *side* with her, spend his time at her house in order to monopolise his time. It was like competing with several women, all who had their hooks in DH. One xmas morning, she even LIED while my MIL was in hospital, to say that her kids had no diapers. I knew it was a scam, but DH fell for it and went running. He soon found out from FIL that SIL had an entire pack of diapers sitting in her house, she just wanted to ensure she caused trouble between us and because she wanted to see him xmas morning. Sick thing was in the end she left her baby sitting in a sodden, dirty diaper ALL of xmas day. Suffice to say DH doesnt speak to her anymore.

fractioned's picture

SO glad you guys got to have your weekend! Here's hoping things go more smoothly next time!

Doubletakex3's picture

Yaaayyyyy. Hopefully next time there will be less drama because the crazies learned they're not running the show. Hopefully.

oneoffour's picture

OMG!SD actually survived? Did she win $1 million?

See she can do it... and obvioulsy so can YOU! Wink