I am beside myself...Yesterday HORRIBLE DAY!!!!!!

Weekend went ok, that is Friday and Sat......SUNDAY, not so much....

Friday we stayed home with the children (BS14 and SD16) I made dinner, watched movies, BS14 kinda did his own thing, went for ice cream the whole family thing. SD16 got daddy all night.

Sat we had a cookout, it rained but we had it anyway. At like 7pm a friend down the street called DH and asked if we would like to come over for a drink. DH tells him sure for about an hour. So I was in the kitchen cleaning up dinner dishes. DH tells me were going to go down the street for drinks, I of course say OK no problem. BS14 has a friend over they are in his room playing play station, SD16 is here, no problem. (you would think right)...So he tells SD16 were going to so and so house for an hour and then proceeds to explain to her in these words..."now were just down the street, we promise we will only be an hour, will you be ok for that hour"....Her response I guess but no longer than an hour OK, please?...DH says oh no just an hour.....So we go...I tell my child moms going to so and so house down the street...His reponse ya OK....So we go...SD16 called DH twice once about something about her friends earring and the other didnt even give a shit....1 hour goes by DH says OK gotta go so we leave. We get home my son says you went already i thought you were still here....SD16 says about time your back and starts a conversation about some earring of a friend of hers...(her only friend BTW)...Whatever!!!

SUNDAY.....DH and SD16 are going to MIL's for a visit. I however have lots to do and decide not to go. Well at 12 we got unexpected company. We were on the deck chating SD16 came out 3 times to ask DH when are we leaving for grandmas. DH frist time says when I am ready, second time, not yet was his reponse...Third time I almost lost it, she had her sweatshirt on, her pocket book in hand and a bag of goodies i made for them to bring and tells her father we need to leave now so I'm going in the car. I looked at DH and he says we should get going looks at our company and says it was great seeing you guys we need to get together one night for drinks :jawdrop: WTF just happened here....I was beside myself, i was horrified that just happened. When DH came home about 2 hours later I said to him in a oh so pleasant voice DH I need to speek to you....We went outside I just screamed WTF is wrong with you?????? Just when i think we are getting to a light at the end of the tunnel you allow once again your daughter to rule....I told him her behavior was rude and totally uncalled for. And him leaving because she was ready when we had quests was ridiculous and rude on his part also...

We had a great fight and this morning he tells me sorry it was rude but what am I to do...REALLY?????? What the hell is wrong with these fathers who can not even discipline there children. I mean what is to come of these kids...I am Bullshit right now!!!!! and to boot when she left didnt even say bye to anyone....and he did not address this either nothing...not a thing on that was rude, When i am ready I will tell you, this better not happen again, NOTHING!!!!! I dont even know how to deal with this shit anymore!!!! I WANT HER TO GO VISIT HER MOTHER MORE!!!!!

Oh yah about that she went shopping with her mom for 45min came home and told us about the fight they had in the mall....I think the mother is a pience of work but she doesnt put up with SD shit and to be honest I DONT BLAME HER...She is a rude, mean, miserable person....URGGGGGGGG I just want to scream!!!!!!