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Hello all!!!! Wanted to give you an update.....

daisy0202's picture

Where to start....Things are going....AWESOME!!!!!!!

SD turned 17 last month. I had a party for her. She loved it. Her girlfriend came which DH still does not know about. But I love her. She is such a nice girl. She has changed SD into a really nice person to be around. SD17 is happy now, she is out on weekends with her girlfriend. She is finally doing normal things which is amazing. Last Sat I was going shopping and SD called me to ask what I was doing and was wondering if we could get together because she misses me and just wanted to hang. I was like OK....So she picked me up :jawdrop: yes she is driving ALL THE TIME NOW!!!!! We had a great time. Went shopping, took her for lunch had a great talk and yes she did come out to me but asked I do not tell her father she needs time to figure out how to do it. I told her it was not my place and would say nothing but she is happy now, doing well in school, being a normal teen and her dad will be happy for that which he is....not sure on the lesbian part but we will cross that when she decides to tell her dad. She just smiles now, seems really happy, has lost weight, looks great, and I am very happy for her.

DH stays over the house on wed. and weekends and that has been working great. We talk about 4 times a day when we are not together. But things are peaceful and I feel really good about everything. Yes shit might hit the fan when she completely comes out but it is her place to do so. I did tell her she needs to tell her dad when she is ready. Lets hope that goes well which....OMG :? but we will see....SD is never over anymore she is mostly out and on wed she stays at her grandmothers. It is amazing how things turned out. I would love DH to be at the house full time but for now this is working....

We are going away for the first time in awhile. I am very excited. We leave Thursday morning and will not return till Monday night. I cant wait I already started packing. It was really bad for so long it is hard to believe we are here now. Just wanted to let my step talk friends know how I was doing....I hope the best for all of you......BYE EVERYONE!!!!!! XOXO Wink

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imjustthemaid's picture

Wow that is so great!! I am so happy for you and hopefully he can move back in and things will still be great. I wonder if she was acting out the way she was because she was hiding this secret and felt maybe like she didn't fit in or felt awkward and didn't really understand it herself.

Willow2010's picture

YAY!! Glad it is going so well. I figured it would work if you did not live together.

That is the only reason DH and I stayed together for so long. We did not live together or marry for many,many years. We would have divorced if we had married back when all of the bad drama was going on. Good luck!!

whatwasithinkin's picture

Wow I have been wondering how you are...evidently good@!! glad to hear that...I wish my step daughter would turn a corner ...im jealous