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New news that I am not sure if I should tell DH...

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Wel first things first...Things are going very well....We are all getting along wonderfully.....DH and SD still stay on the weekends but since school has started back up SD does not come on Wed....and lately the weekends for her consist of only one day. She has been hanging out with a friend alot which I thought was great....

? for all...love some input...

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Is it terrible that I still hate my SD16?

Yes things are getting better, yes DH is finally stepping up and being a dad, yes SD is finally going out and being somewhat normal, with some corks....But there is still a piece of me that cant stand her!!! I feel so much has happened, my DH and I cant even live together right now because of her issues, and it just pisses me off...Yes what we are doing is working and yes its getting better and I do see a light at the end of the tunnel but I still cant stand this kid...Am I a terible person for feeling this way?

update!!!

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Hello everyone....Its been a little bit so wanted to update everyone....

Lets see for new people....My DH and SD16 no longer live with me. DH and I are still together but not living together....

This is still the case with some small changes....DH stays over every Wed. by himself, SD16 stays at the grandmothers (where they both live) Fridays to Sundays they both sleep over leaving on sundays...

Im back!!!!

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Yes thats right I am back...Things have been going well but today had a set back.

SD16 has been comming over more often and things have been ok. yes just OK, she is not cocky, not being rude, or mean. Shes just ALWAYS THERE ONCE AGAIN!!!!

Boyfriend is no longer in picture, they are not living with us anymore but they both stay now on the weekends. It has been OK and working well but now DH and I decided Wed. will be our alone time. We do go out on weekends and Sd16 does not piss and moan but shes always there!!!!

Things still going well!!!!

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Well things are going well...The weekend was great, DH stayed all weekend...SD16 was with boyfriend all weekend.

She has been texting me small things like how she enjoyed the zuccini from the garden and thanking me for the veggies I sent home with DH...Yesterday i got a text to enjoy my girls weekend....I am going on a girls weekend to the cape with my girlfriends. We are staying at my parents home and I am leaving tonight and meeting my friends up there tomorrow.....Need to get the house ready for PARTYING }:) ...

Another great time with SD....

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SD came over with DH for a cookout for the 4th and again it went GREAT!!!!

We had a great day. Swimming, movies, and just a nice time....BS14 left at around 6 to go to a friends and firework, SD16 left at 7 with HER DATE :jawdrop: OMG....and called me when she got home to tell me all about it....HER FIRST KISS...she was alll GOOO GOOO GAAA GAAA....It was funny. I dont know if this will last, or if something happens with this boyfriend she will go back to her old ways but for now everyone I am actually enjoying my SD....Dear god please continue......

had the most amazing night last night with DH

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So got home from work last night and DH was cutting the grass...

Yes he is still doing the things he always has done in the yard. I take care of the inside of the house he takes care of the outside. Even though right now he is not living there with me he still takes care of the yard work.

So he was cutting the grass and BS14 was at a friends, BS21 and girlfriend went to the beach with friends and then was goiong to dinner at friends....So DH and I had the house to ourselves. Long story short he left this morning. It was like we were teenagers. I loves it!!!!

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