I was talking to a co-worker today and he mentioned his 26yr old SS that recently moved back in with him and his wife.
We spoke to a lawyer on Friday and I got a rude awakening. I was hoping we could change a few items just to make things more equal and lower the CS since we have SS full time now.
We went a nice local nursery and to the annual Art festival on Saturday.
If someone would have told me 8 years ago to get ready to deal with shit on a regular basis, I would have laughed.
Who deals with poop unless they have babies and toddlers?
I'm calling the lawyer today to set up an appointment to finally get the CS changed and get custody of SS changed to DH.
We had the skids from the 6th until 12th. DH brought them to BM on the 12th and she was supposed to bring SS back to us on the 16th.
SD13 has been at our house since Friday. Still hasn't showered. She is leaving on Wednesday and at this point I'm betting that she won't shower unless DH makes her.
My days of sharing with SD13 are finally over.
When I first met DH, SD was only 6. But that didn't stop DH from thinking SD had a right to everything of mine that she wanted.
DH just called me and told me that BM called. The only time she calls and doesn't text is when she wants something.
So this Sunday SS had a birthday party that he just HAD to attend.