Yet another reason I hate BM
I guess I'm going to be today's blog hog.
We took skids to BM's house on the 23th of Dec. SS just came back home yesterday afternoon. (As a side note, it was absolute bliss being kid free for so long)
I asked SS how his time with mom was. Did he have fun. Normal conversation. I also asked him if he got anything fun for Christmas.
We knew that skids were saying that BM was just going to give them money. DH and I figured they were wrong because BM told DH she was working extra shifts because she had put Christmas items on her credit card.
Her new fiancé (BM would be rich if she cashed in all the engagement rings she has had in the last 8 years) has two children ages 4 and 8.
Guess who got loads of gifts to open Christmas morning. And guess who sat and watched while getting to open nothing. Yup, new fiancé's kids got lots of cool toys (according to SS) and he and SD got cash. I asked him if BM took them to the store so they could buy themselves something. Of course not. In fact, she didn't give them the money. She is "holding" it for them. She has done this in the past with Birthday gifts from relatives and they never get the money. They know this and were complaining about it before we took them to her house. SS said it was 33% possible she would give them the money and SD said it was 3%.
SS11 said BM and new fiancé told him and SD13 that they were too old for gifts. WTF!! I'm in my 40's and I'm sure as shit not too old for gifts.
What kind of person has their own children sit and watch while other kids open gifts YOU purchased. He was pretty upset about it. She has never given a crap about her 4 kids. They never got much...Last year they got three video games to share. But they got something. I don't know if she is trying to impress new fiancé or she just hates her own kids that much. Again, WTF.
I hate her.