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OT/MIL asking to throw me a seperate shower
If you've read my previous blogs you know I have a controlling passive aggressive Mil. Since finding out I was pregnant and Dh putting his mom in her place when she steps out of line, I haven't really seen her too much. Welll, Dh let it slip that at our last ultrasound they told us it LOOKS like a girl. To give background here, Dh has a son that is 5 and his sister is having a boy in September so Mil has been jonesin' for a granddaughter. Sooo, now she's been on her best behavior and amped up the sweetness...
SASS14 finally gave me what I wanted
My out - he gave me my out, right in front of DW. Over the last month, he has taken douchebaggery to a whole new level. In fact, I think I will refer to him as C-Bag as in colostomy, because that's what he is - a bag of toxic refuse.
I flat out told him to his face that he is not a likable person a year ago, and re-affirmed it yesterday in front of DW and a friend of the family that has known him his entire life. He told me "Well, I don't like you either."
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Am I REALLY Supposed to LOVE Them?
Am I really supposed to love my boyfriend's children (daugthers 5 and 7) like my OWN?
He and I have two sons together...there is NO WAY I can love his or anyone elses children like my own. Especially his. When they come every other weekend I am NOT at peace. I'm uncomfortable in my home. My skin crawls. I'm jealous, I'm angry, I'm withdrawn. I'm on alert worrying about them interacting with my sons. Every other weekend is hell for me. We have them for a week toward the end of August,,, HELL.
DH swears at my cats so I can swear at SS, right?
Kind of a silly rant, but here goes anyway...
So DH has this nasty habit of saying things to the cats like "you're a f-ing piece of s@!$" or just calling them nasty things. Now, I love my cats more than most humans and when he says stuff like this to them it really, really bothers me. I believe that they don't understand what he's saying and he is nice to them otherwise by petting them a lot and feeding them first thing in the morning and cleaning up after them. So I don't think he hurts them in any way. But I feel bad to hear him say those things to animals I truly care about.
ok whose 'stepdaughter' works with me?
OMG this girl started here at the same bar I work at not too long ago.
First I must say she has been caught is so many lies its crazy. Mostly about her life like she's been bregho 9xs. She's only 21! Plus she was preggo a month ago then lost it.
So anyway she came in tonight all butt hurt that her dad went to a theme park near where we live with out her. She doesn't live with him or her mom. Plus according to her he cut her out of his life.
I Wish I Could Leave this Marriage
If anybody knows me, they know my story. 4 skids (SD18, SS20, SS23, SD24) -- it just never gets better. Thankfully they have all moved out of the house, but I still have to deal with them periodically because of weddings, baby, birthdays, etc. I already posted tonight that my SD18 wants to come for a visit, and I told DH no -- I do not want her here, at all.
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Custody Jurisdiction question
My husband currently has primary sole physical custody of my ss. We live in Tx and the bm lives in nm. My ss has lived with us for over 3years, two of those in tx. Tx is considered my ss home state. The current custody papers are out of nm. We will be going to court next month to transfer jurisdiction from nm to tx. Myquestion is once the nm judge transfers jurisdiction to tx, does that make the nm custody papers null and void at that point ?
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Be careful who you give advice to
For some crazy reason people put up blogs and they will tell you they are a Mule and what you find out later is that they are really a donkey. When you point out this mistruth they will get "butt hurt" and cry that they did not lie and it is you who are bad. They bed for advice for a situation and when you give it they say well that advice won't work because the situation is not what I said it was BUT I didn't lie. They obviously do not know the definition of lying.
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SO beat SS so bad on his legs that he couldn't walk for 2 days!!!
I last blogged about BM kicking out SD17 and SS(now)16 from her mothers home. BM told both kids that she did not give a shit about them and if they did not leave that same day she was kicking them out, she was going to drop them off at the police station or at foster care. Skids are now both back. SD17 going on 18 this September has been on her best behavior. No disrespect, no attitude or back talk. I told her the true test would be once she went back to school. SS is being SS.