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I hope it's ok to discuss this topic. We have had a huge snag in the bedroom. It not all the time but it happened before and I thought being honest and communicating that i was not being satisfied. My needs aren't beeing met. Before someone says," well maybe its because HIS needs aren't being met!" Um NO, I watch his needs be met Everytime with or without my help. 

My question is, how do I approach the issue to him?

Why don't our SO see the other perspective?

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Why does it alwayalhave to be so difficult? I have been sick on and off with  weather changes down here in TX. I usually don't get allergies or sick for the most part. Well this year has kicked my ass with being sick. Once imI'getting back to my self again bam it hits me again. Back to the dr and back on antibiotics......the works! 

It lasted only a week!

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Hi guys heres an update. BM still not locked up no surprise there!!!!!! Monday she had a PO visit in the town next to ours and she decided to stop to spend time with SK. She pulled up and DH if she can see SK. Of course you can, we do not deny her from see/visiting but he WILL NOT go to where ever BM is. Well SK came out and she gave him a hug and then left( such quality time). DH told me about iyias soon as it got home. NO BIGGIE, I said thank you and brushed it off. Earlier that week I did notice multiple calls from an unsaved number and i had my suspicion that is was BM.

This man is something else....ha ha ha

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Okay y'all know I have been in a funk for the past few days about the BM. So yesterday I decided snap out of it move forward with this relationship, I have been disconnected and a little distant. For the past month of October I have been sick due to the weather changing. I haven't felt in the mood for some cuddle time nor have I felt very sexy with these crazy bodily functions happening due to several different antibiotics I've been on. I noticed they were having a sale at Victoria's Secret so I decided to go get a few things for some adult time with him.

BM going to jail

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Im not counting my chickens before they hatch but BM sent an emaile saying she was going away for a long time. I won't believe it until it happens. I believe this is one of her manipulation tactics for him to reply to her. He said, I started to reply but then I just pushed block button. ( She has created several email accounts to try to get through the block) She also voiced that she wanted to harm herself( yet another manipulation tactics, one of several voiced but no action taken)

My head is second guessing but my heart...All IN

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I;m having a very difficult time and cinfliced within myself and this relationship. BM left her marriage and family for her drug dealer well over 2 years ago. She is a meth addict and on probation for meth possession, CPS case open against her because the drugs were around the child. She has, in my eyes rock bottom but yet not realize it! Dad has primary custody, BM never had him more than 24hr at a time until she learned of me! She kinda tried to step up her mommy game but fell back to drugs and abusive drugdealer BF.