The big move
Hi guys! Things have been good since BM is in jail. She had been in the county going on 3 months. She was ultamately sentenced to 8m is State mandated rehabilitation. Basically a jail type of setting rehab. She hasn't gone there yet for teatment and is still trying the usual love letters/ blame game through mail. Not bothered by it. She wrote " I wish you would just answer a phone call and work on co-parenting with me." LMAO what kind of co-parenting can a person do from behind bars?????
Ok here is the reason why I need y'all's input on the big move. I take care of my disabled mom and she is pretty much independent for the most part. Meaning she can do the activities of daily living on her own unless she gets sick then I have to physically do everything for her. I also provide 100% financial support for living. She lives in my apartment we shared from before I got in this relationship 2years ago. Now it's a financial struggle for my BF and a little for myself too. Should I move my mom in the house?
It was BF idea to move her in last year but It was too soon for that. I have written down the pros and cons of it all and I'm still upon the air about it. He is having financial issues and I want to help but it means I would be taking away from my mom. He knew before I moved in that I take care of my mom. Just like I knew he was a package deal when I got in the relationship. For him, his son comes first and for me my mom comes first. We both work extra and still just barley making it. It put stress on the relationship because we are both tired at times for intamacy when we are in the mood (at different times.) We are communicating more about alot of things.
I don't want to uproot my mom and it not work out.