No boom boom No communication
I hope it's ok to discuss this topic. We have had a huge snag in the bedroom. It not all the time but it happened before and I thought being honest and communicating that i was not being satisfied. My needs aren't beeing met. Before someone says," well maybe its because HIS needs aren't being met!" Um NO, I watch his needs be met Everytime with or without my help.
My question is, how do I approach the issue to him?
Last night it happened again. He asked me what my problem was and i thought i was being selective with my words. I know words can hurt so i expressed to him that," I'm not being satisfied." He turned thoes 4 words into," so you don't like sex with me, sex with me is bad all the tume?"
How can you he just turn IM NOT BEING SATISFIED into all that? Ive been open to all new things he presented to me and iIhave brought new stuff to him. He said I'm nit initiative, so i took initiative and he loved it and still NO SATISFACTION to me. I have communicated durring and told him what I like or prefer and still he is only satisfying himself.
What do I do, How do i approach this in a sensitive manner so my words are not misconstrued?