Mediation is over: Starting today we now have skids 50/50 instead of 67/33. They come by us today and normally they would stay with us for 10 days, but with the new schedule they will come by us today and she will get them back after school next Monday and keep them until the following Monday morning. This is on a temporary trial basis which goes until January, at which point they will decide if it's working. My SO said Crazy was all quiet and out of it, she didn't say anything the whole time except that "the kids really want 50/50" and so does she".

I can't seem to let this go, so I think I need to know if I'm overreacting.

So Crazy (BM) took an office job in the Nursing home she works for. Before she was a CNA and made maybe $15/hr. She's actually held this job for about 2 years now, which is a huge improvement over her quitting every job within a week of being hired, or just not showing up period. She actually tried to quit this one too, but they begged her back. The other day my SO was talking about his friend who was buying a house with his gf- the friend was buying the house in his name only, even though he has been with his gf for 13yrs. GF has a daughter (SD18), and they just found out she is pregnant.

Today on my way into work a female radio DJ was talking to her 2 male co-hosts about a 2nd date she had planned tonight. She hasn't dated much since her divorce, but now she is getting back out there. The date was to go bowling at 6pm. Her dilemma was, although it isn't her custody day, her 7yr old son has baseball practice tonight, which she usually goes to. She likes to go to be in control and see what her son is up to, not because she really wants to be supportive (her words). We're talking rec league PRACTICE, not even a school league.