SO asked my parents to help with pick up and drop offs of his kids at school because I'm not always available and he cannot afford latchkey plus his ds keeps getting kicked out of latchkey. I also expected BM to be a nutter regardless of who SO has do this. Sure enough SO got a tirade of texts about the time she would normally get the kids on her time from latchkey.
Her bitch "he can't get MY kids I don't know him!"

SO's dd came up to me today and said "can I tell you something?" I said sure.
"Bubby and I listen to mommy in the vent in the bathroom we can hear her say inappropriate things about daddy."
Me: "oh well you know your daddy loves and cares about you very much and that's what's important and you know we don't like it when your nosy and listen in on people right?"
Her: "I told her to shut up or I'd have you beat her up."
Me: "you shouldn't talk to your mom like that even if your mad ar her, it's not nice."

SO again made Christmas happen of course at the expense of not paying our bills.
Kids were thankful, and so delighted. My dd wants to "die in these boots!" Probably the first brand new not used shoes I've ever got her. SO's ds loved his jeans, mine his new multitool, and SO's dd her monster high doll.
BM had been complaining she wanted her kids early SO said no and let her know she could get them when she was supposed to as he has a flat tire (I was taking my kids to the exil's and stopping by my aunts and uncles who live next door to BM)

SO finally heard back from BM's lawyer, her secretary to him his parenting plan would never be accepted as it's too detailed. Uh isn't that the point to avoid continued court action, or mediation and the costs. It's detailed for a reason because BM can't harass and control things that way it's all in the parenting plan. anyone ever heard of such crap too detailed?