SO asked my parents to help with pick up and drop offs of his kids at school because I'm not always available and he cannot afford latchkey plus his ds keeps getting kicked out of latchkey. I also expected BM to be a nutter regardless of who SO has do this. Sure enough SO got a tirade of texts about the time she would normally get the kids on her time from latchkey.
Her bitch "he can't get MY kids I don't know him!"
SO informed her it doesn't matter she doesn't decide who he has help around the kids on his time since he doesn't let people around the kids who are dangerous.
She blah blahed back about how it's her contract and she already informed latchkey and the school he is not to pick them up. SO again reminded her she doesn't get a say on his time, that he informed the school of who he allows on his time and what she does on hers is just that on her, the kids aren't going to latchkey so it has nothing to do with her latchkey contract on her time, he doesn't disallow her family and her bf from getting the kids on her time (meth addicts and domestic abusers, and more) she doesn't get to on his time.
Then she said she'd get the kids everyday and bring them to him (she doesn't get them till 5 so they'll already be gone and here before then) he told her have a good night (his way of ending the discussion.
Now he's going to the courthouse tomorrow to request a temporary custody order since mediation isn't till freaking March (which he's also calling to move up since that was just the date the court gave and they can move it)
I'll unfortunately be going with my dad to get them tomorrow in case of issues I'm not having it thrown all on my dad he dealt with custody crap once when I was a kid I can't be available in the am but I'll make it happen in the PM.