Well SO got to talk to his daughter last night (not his son because as usual he's not at BM's he's at his uncles according to his sister) When SO got off the phone he asked me if the kids had school tomorrow. I told him mine do and pretty sure his do to as they have the 20th off for presidents day. He tells me that #1 his daughter told him she forgot her folder at school friday because BM picked her up early and said she had an appointment but then didn't take her (the excuse BM gave the school so SO wouldn't be able to pick her up) #2 she stated she didn't have school tomorrow.

We've had SO's daughter for several days now and she is such a good kid! She's 6 she's polite uses her manners and when I asked my bioD to clean up a mess she asked her if she could help, she helped SO fold the laundry and I sat with her doing my school work while she did hers and she said it was really nice to have someone help her(SO got a bunch of her school work yesterday and its obvious no one works with her) but she's smart so its more she doesn't know what the work calls for not that she can't do it.

BM has offered SO whatever kind of custody he wants including primary. He never said anything to me, i found out through other means, he only said he didn't know what I wanted how I felt about things, how my kids would feel so he never responded. Is primary best for the kids? For us? I don't know I think so yes after all I know about their life with her. Am I ready for that? I don't know I haven't thought that far ahead?

Ended up with a horrible migraine last night, still here this morning. I want to blame a lot of things for it none of which probably caused it but meh. We'll start with wackadoo #1 my ex, for some reason is under the impression he's claiming the kids on taxes (co says I do, every year he doesn't support them over 50%, doesn't have them even close to 50% and is behind waaaay behind in cs)Now before the divorce he went on and on about the taxes, after the divorce he went on and on about them and over and over I pointed out why he wasn't claiming them both the tax laws and the co.