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Surrounded by incompetence

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SO has a CO now, BM is required to produce the kids ins to him. 2 weeks ago his son had stitches, and they should of been removed Monday, according to his son BM and grandma took him to the hospital but they told him (the ER) to go to wal mart (walgreens) to get them out since the child doesn't have a pediatrician (they have medicaid for spongebob's sake there are 3 peds docs in town all that take it!) So what does she and her mom do, try to remove them themselves and because 5 are mattress stitches they don't remove as simply, she left pieces in him and they are now red and swollen.

stupidest reason to stay!

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Did you know it's not just having a baby as a tactic to keep a man to stay it's puppies too? Hahahahahaha I'm sorry my dd just reveled to me her dad tells people "I had a dog once but it was kept from me after the divorce" Lol wtf look my mom rescued a puppy, he was so cute and I fostered it, exh decided we could keep it and he was cheating on me so we divorced because he couldn't be faithful I gave him the choice psycho bff neighbor whore or me his response "you can't tell me who to be friends with!"

His why is stupid

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SO decided his signed custody and parenting plan was "none of your business" when I finally had a moment to call down and address how hurt and angry I was his reasoning? He didn't want to hear me bitch!
So they didn't add in a moving clause they'll end up in court over that eventually his problem not mine, so they didn't change it to say BM's week instead of weekend at least it says what it does the way it does and it's now Friday instead of Monday. It's still pretty good not as detailed but he can start beating her with it yay!

Follow up to CO says what?

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BM just text me and SO (she sent it to me as well since he didn't respond to her she tends to do that if she thinks it's important) pretty much it's just info on summer day care for the kids she apparently got it paid for (she makes too much so she had to of lied again)but the kids won't go there when SO has them as there's no point while he's unemployed.

CO says what?

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Well SO finally went to BM's lawyers to pick up what we both expected to be a laughable version of what SO wanted, after the mediator sent an email with a bunch of mess ups on what they actually agreed on and using BM's lawyers version of a vague bs parenting plan. SO had then sent copies of texts from BM along with her threats, and disagreeing with the mediator and how she was again going to with hold the kids and go for sole custody because SO won't be her bitch.
The parenting plan he got is almost exactly what he asked for!

So dang frustrating

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All the kids (mine and SO's) wished me happy mother's day upon me waking. My ds with lots of SO's help made me yummy quiche and bacon for breakfast. Yay! DD had to work, and BM actually came and got her kids 45 min late but she got them, fed them 2nd breakfast apparently, and took them to the park. Brought them back 4 hours early, in tears because she told them she had to bring them back because she "has things to do" and their older half sister told them she gets to do more fun things when they aren't there.

So peaceful

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BM has been quiet last few days, we got the kids Friday and usually she starts in as soon as she's off work which she did but SO did as I asked and just didn't respond and she stopped.

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