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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 08/18/2012 - 6:49pm

I've been listening to the alphabet song for over an hour while SO tries to teach his 5 year old who is starting kindergarten in 4 days. The alphabet he should already know as it's on the list of things they should know along with many other things he can't do. No one works with these kids! SO has just realized how lacking they are being around my kids and the stories I talk about when they were young. I tell him not to compare kids mine always excelled and were ahead in most areas, but here's a list of what they should already know.

I was not made to play lawyer

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 08/17/2012 - 12:22pm

With SO out of work and all the financial issues SO has decided his only option is to get this divorce and custody done himself against BM finally having an actual lawyer. I helped him write a great parenting plan and a rough draft of his response to the refile for dissolution of marriage (not long story comes down to they dicked around and had to start over) BM was given the plan had a few questions she responded rationally.

Lesson time Yay!

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 7:39pm

So my dd is 16 and I've been on her to find a job the rules are close enough she can walk (she won't have her license for 6 more months we have one car and it's already shared between 2 adults and she can't count on her dad) grades come first so full time in the summer is fine part time during school grades drop job goes.

BM feak out

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 7:52pm

If your child accused someone at daycare of harming them and it waz deported to the autborities and out of courtesy the other parent informs you of the now investigation of the incident are tou going to call 20them times then try the gf's phone several times then texts messages demanding a response after your given the info and the investigators # to call then when he does answer scream and cry why did someone report this! Then demand the mandated reporters info and then scream some more when you aren't told.

It's always something

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 7:13am

So SO's ex has been "offering" us the kids for a week at a time. Other than it being a huge change from her normal behavior of saying the kids don't want to come and she's not going to force them since they will cry and scream (because SHE never sees her son he cries for her because he sees her when she gets him and brings him to us.) We've been picking them up from summer camp and they are just tickled to see us and stay for so long.

long long week

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sun, 07/08/2012 - 2:36am

Well it started off with a date screw up by SO. He kept thinking Tuesday was the 4th of July and therefore my son's birthday. I knew he was asking BM if he could have his kids after summer camp the day before the 4th and keep them and take them to summer camp the day after. BM said sure that's fine. When he repeated to me again that the 4th was Tuesday I let him know that no the 4th is Wednesday. He gets that oh shit look and I ask what he says he didn't specify dates with BM just Tuesday till the day after the 4th.

Is this the new trend for mother's day?

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 1:56pm

SO contacted BM about mother's day arrangements since its his weekend he figured she would want them for the day then he would get them back in the evening and take them to school Monday. Nope she doesn't want them did her Mothers day this past weekend (according to her neighbor my cousin she hasn't had her own kids for a week which means they are likely at their uncles).

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