OK-this is all just conjecture but I really feel like something big is going down. And truth be told, Im excited about it. So don't dash my hopes. When things happen, things get shaken up, that's when change can occur and frankly changes have been long overdue in that household.

Here's why I think something is going down_

1)ss15 called dh last week after 7 months of silence. After telling dh he was done and no longer having a father. He just called him up as if nothing was wrong.

Ok-so if anyone is familiar with my story-you all know dh is medically retired from the military-so he doesnt work. He has a friend that is in a similar situation-they were roommates at one point while active duty. So they spend alot of time together-well maybe they see each other 1-2 times a week and will spend most of the day together. I dont have a problem with that. Sometimes more-they help each other a lot with various projects and such.

Wow! I cant believe how bad things were for me back then. SS15 was living here and an ass on a daily basis and my dh had lost his freaking mind and I was afraid he'd never find it! Things are so much better now. My ss15 moved out on 6/21 of last year so we are approaching that one year mark. Dh got back on his medication and that along with the reduced stress level seemed to work wonders. Right now he is a chaperone on a church trip with my two oldest! A year ago I didnt even want him to GO to Church with me because there was no guarantee of how he'd act.

I was just curious-another post got me to thinking how these sweet little skids are really people too and we should care for them as we do all humanity.