Let me say that dh has been an ass all weekend. Just grouchy, Unpleasant, not particularly nice to me. Saturday morning- we had made a trip to walmart and the subject of his parents came up. Somehow he decided I was not totally blameless in the fact that they have been asses to me for years. I admit I freaked a little. Really, dh, what have I done to them? Please tell me and I will give it so e significant thought and then if I do share blame will gladly admit it. But, nada, he couldn't actually come up with anything.

So I've not spoke to this man in 18 months- at least- it maybe closer to 2 years. Dh has not spoke to him but once in 10 months. S he randomly messages my dh on Facebook sat nite. Tells him to give ME a message, about staying out of sil's business and its a joke if I think I've ev helped anyone in that family. He then called my dh a liar, said sme other nonsense, etc. dh told him he didn't wish to speak to him a coup,e of times- fil said dh was just too ashamed to talk to him. Smh over that one. Anywho, dh simply blocked him then.

So my dd comes home today and tells me that ss brought an iPad to school today. She overheard him tell someone that my mil got it for him for his bday. I am kind of outraged. I know I shouldn't care- but the only class this kid is passing is gym. He failed pretty much every class all year.. He essentially will have to repeat his freshman year of high school. He has been suspended a number of times. He has been referred to the probation department for possessing marijuana paraphinilia and apparently smoking it on the school bus.

Ok-ss will be 15 in two days-he has not stepped foot in our house since june of last year. He lived with us for 4 months-prior to that he had not lived with us since 2007. Big gaps of time in which no visits occurred as dh was in Iraq or various spots due to military service and was not living with us.