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Who is responsible for ss's copays?

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Ok- so as many of you know ss14 lives with mil. Unofficially. Dh told me he offered her guardianship an she refused. Mil receives a portion of dh's disability check for ss each month (the same amount bm received when she had custody). Dh also maintains medical/ dental insurance on ss. Bm contributes nothing. So yesterday we get a bill from the doctor for ss. She has taken him to the dr two months Ina row and they are charging us the copays. This was his doctor while he lived with us so they have our info.

OT-but really frustrated with dh about nonskid issue...

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Ok-my dh is retired. Medically discharged from military-has back issues, chronic pain, ptsd, and a mild tbi. So he stays home all day. There's plenty to do at home-housework, household projects, he has several hobbies that he is able to do at home, and then of course the boring things such as nap or watch tv. The kids start coming home right around 3-so this man has 7 hours 4-5 days a week by himself.

New gagworthy facebook post of the day...

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"I have to believe when you are a good person and treat people with respect good things will happen to you, although, sometimes it seems that no matter what you do it is wrong. I just have to have faith that if I stay on the right path good things will happen for me and my family! I also have to believe that what comes around goes around! just have to have faith and hope for the best".

Just really angry...

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Ok-folks again I appreciate you listenting to my ramblings that are not really step related but more inlaw related. I am just so angry at everyone of my dh's freaking family members that I am fantasizing about beating them up. I am trying to get a lid on all these feelings, but I am just appalled.

Sil finally arrested and shit hitting the fan...

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So they finally picked up sil on her 14 felonies last night. Immediately my dh starts getting calls from mil. We talked about him not calling her back-however she continued to call into today so he finally calls her back about an hour ago. She was angry with HIM! She told him he should have paid the bills she ran up and kept his mouth shut? Then she hung up on him. WTF is wrong with these people? The arresting police officer also called dh this morning. He basically said that sil was running her mouth the whole entire time blaming everything on dh. Again, WTF?

not skid related-but once again inlaw related...

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Sooo-the latest-the victim's advocate called dh on Monday and asked him if he was sure he wanted to proceed since the perp was his sister. He said yes. She told him the warrant had been issued-however best we can tell she is still out there creating chaos. He gets a text from her yesterday-telling him to tell ME to leave her alone-and for the last time she didnt steal from him and that she wasnt going to tell any family secrets (?), but she is going to get me for sharing my work information-that's confidential and against the law and that she saved all those messages.

Psych sil at it again.

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So she and dh haven't talked since end of July. Other than the funeral of their uncle two weeks ago in which she came up to him and hugged him. So now yesterday she starts texting him. And calling him. Over and over and over again. All sorts of asinine stuff- saying shell give him 1500.00 when she gets her taxes back (she is offering this despite adamantly denying she stole anything), telling him she is getting married, telling him their dad is talking badly about him, to poor mil she's got it so rough taking care of ss14- to my absolute fave-offering him drugs. Wtf?

Charging sil with 13 felonies! Yeah!

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State police finally called yesterday and said that they are going to charge my sil with 13 felonies for opening the two credit cards in dh's name and making 11 different charges. She is also currently out on bond right now for check deception. So I am thinking, hoping, that her future is not looking too rosy right now. He said we should expect them to pick her up in the next week or so.

ugh I wouldnt think this kid could cause so much drama since he is OUT of our house.

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So I posted a few weeks ago how my dd14 came home and told us her friend said ss14 was saying that my dh was growing a garage full of marijuana and that ss found it, so dh offered him drugs every day if he would be nice to me. SS said he refused to be nice to me so he had to move out.

Ss14 talking about my dd14 at school...

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Sigh- this was my concern. In the one week of school we've already dealt with him satiny my dh was growing pot and offered him a joint a day to be nice to me and he wasn't so that's why he moved out, now he is yelling down the halls that my dd14 is sleeping with all the "high school guys". This was in response to my dd14's new boyfriend saying "what's up man" ss didn't answer and then yelled down the hall that she was sleeping with all these High school guys. I am quite secure that my dd is a virgin- but no one needs to hear tht crap. I'm really starting to get pissed off.

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