So I thought that with ss15 moving out 18 months ago that eventually he'd just be a nonissue for me-however it seems I keep running across him in some manner or another and its making me feel as if I hate him more. We did have a real quiet time-in which he was nonissue when he was in juvenile detention, but he got out at the beginning of November.

So this is off topic, but many of you may remember that dh is disabled (ddd, tbi, PTSD) . He gets paid a nice sum to sit at home through his various pensions, VA, etc.

Talk about being in the right place at the right time. We have a very small county. I'm over at the courthouse several times a month due to work puposes as part of our drug court. So today I head over there and as I am walking up the 3 flights of stairs I look up and see someone who looks like my mil sitting on the bench by the courtroom. I go into my meeting, but curiosity gets the best of me and I go out to get a drink at the water fountain. Yep, I confirm its her. I see she's sitting with two other people but I didn't get a good look.

I don't get it-I really, really don't. To some extent, I understand the whole "Disney dad" as in let's do fun things eoweekend and let me buy you lots of stuff. These parents have limited time with their kids so they want to cram all this fun stuff into their time. It's not right, but I sort of get the motivation behind it.