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YSD just randomly stopping by....

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 07/10/2017 - 7:11am

Yesterday DH and I are in our backyard with some friends having a cookout/drinks. Out of the blue comes YSD (and her baby). We have not talked to her since the drama from a couple of weeks ago.

For reference: https://www.steptalk.org/node/238910

I'm not surprised that she feels entitled to be rude to me then show up like nothing happened.

I was cordial. We had friends over so I didn't want to make it uncomfortable for anyone. Had it been just DH and I, I would have said hi and then went inside.

SS using our address

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 06/27/2017 - 10:51am

When we moved to our current house, SS had just graduated HS and was living with us.

We gave him until September to live with us before he had to have his own place. (He wasn't going to school, working but he likes to stay out late, not responsible, etc. Not a bad person to live with other then worrying about who he was bringing in the house and if they were trustworthy and him using our house as more of a flop house as opposed to his home)

OT: Venting- Adopt Don't Shop

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 06/27/2017 - 7:28am

I'm a big supporter of Adopt Don't Shop. I believe in adopting a pet as opposed to buying from a pet store or breeder.

My neighbors own 4 Bernese Mountain dogs. These are big, hairy dogs. They mated 2 of the dogs for the purpose of breeding. The dog had a HUGE litter. Like 10 puppies. I think 3 died during childbirth or right after.

They sold a couple and now have 5 dogs that need a home. Soon they aren't going to be cute little puppies, they are going to be getting bigger, where people are less interested in them.

This made me LOL

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 06/26/2017 - 6:50am

Okay I'm really trying hard to be disengaged and I am going to keep working on that. But this made me LOL. Like really :? :? .

OSD text DH the following yesterday. I was sitting right beside him so that is why I saw it. And my nosy ass couldn't look away.

OSD: What is Grandma Millie's husband's name. (This is DH's grandma, Millie's 2nd husband)

DH: Robert

OSD: I'm naming my baby John Joseph Robert

DH: That's a good name

OSD: Thanks

:O You are naming your baby after someone's name you didn't even know :?

I guess DH has had some time to think...

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 06/23/2017 - 8:11am

DH must have spent yesterday thinking about the skids situation. Which is actually a surprise because normally he just acts like everything is peachy keen Smile

Here are some of the highlights of our conversation:

He's not reaching out to OSD or YSD until they learn to grow up. (I don't agree with this. I think that he should try to talk through things and get things fixed but he says until they grow up it's just going to be a cycle of this behavior.)

And they are just amping up the crazy.... YSD this time

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 06/22/2017 - 7:29am

Last night DH, BS and I are outside chilling on our patio. Getting ready to head in soon. YSD calls and asks DH if she can come over. It's 8:50pm. (Which I think is odd she is trying to bring a baby that is less then a week old outside at that time but whatever) DH says yes, meet me out back. (Where we were finishing up our beers and then would have headed in the house when she got there with the baby.) So we are waiting about 15 minutes pass (she lives literally 2 minutes down the road) and DH gets a text from YSD "Never mind, you don't even make an effort, I'm tired of trying with you.

Father's Day Drama Part 2

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 06/21/2017 - 8:27am

Monday I am home from work, playing on my phone, looking through pictures feeling sentimental about BS (who had been gone for a week) and DH. I made a collage of DH and BS and wrote a sentimental statement about how much BS looks up to DH, it hasn't always been easy for them but BS shows his love for DH, etc. etc. It was really about my BS and his love for DH. I posted on IG and shared on FB, tagging DH.

Father's Day Drama Part 1

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 06/21/2017 - 7:11am

It's been interesting in skid land the past few days.

YSD18 had her baby 2 weeks early. A girl. DH hasn't seen her or hasn't seemed very excited about it. When she sent the picture of the baby announcing her birth DH didn't even want to reply to her text. I did encourage him to at least respond and he said "She has no business having a baby." True. I know it's hard that his youngest is following in the foot steps of OSD and MSD, having a baby too young and with no financial stability.

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