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Running from the law?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 11/08/2017 - 12:43pm

A little back story.

November 2015 SS got OVI- not alcohol but weed. (though I am guessing it may have been other drugs).

While he was waiting to go to court for the OVI he gets a second one. Same- for drugs (supposedly weed).

So he gets probation, work release "jail" at a half way house. He seems to be doing fine for about 6 months or so.

Then over the summer he gets a revocation hearing. Not sure what for. He goes back to court, they give him counseling.

OT: Halloween

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 10/27/2017 - 12:21pm

Do you trick or treat or pass out candy?

Adult Halloween Party- Yes or No?

Favorite Halloween movie?

Favorite Halloween costume from when you were a kid?

Favorite candy to find in a Halloween basket?

"Offensive" Halloween costumes- offensive or people are being "snowflakes"?

Ever worn a "sl*tty" Halloween costume?

Do you dress up your pets for Halloween?

Do you decorate your house for Halloween?

Pot Meet Kettle

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 10/23/2017 - 2:13pm

I was being nosey on DH's FB and I saw an exchange between OSD and SS's GF (more on her later) where OSD was mad that GF didn't come over to do her laundry like she was supposed to and she didn't tell OSD that she wasn't coming over.

OSD was giving the GF a hard time. And of course it's all done over FB because that is the appropriate place to have those conversations. Dirol

Something strange happened

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 10/09/2017 - 10:05am

So something strange happened yesterday.

YSD sent DH a text asking if he wanted to go to the apple farm with her and her baby. The strange thing was that she said "Do you, Zero and BS want to go to apple farm today?"

This is a TOTAL SHOCKER as YSD likes to act like I and BS don't exist. Especially BS.

DH had other plans so it didn't happen. Plus BS was at his dad's and I was in no mood to even do anything like that, especially considering I am disengaged from skids.

OSD step daughter looks EXACTLY like her mom

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 09/21/2017 - 6:33am

OSD likes to pretend that she is super SM. Even though she has hardly been around her skids. And when she has it's just been fun visits because her DH baby mama will keep the kids from him (rightfully so, he's an addict and a thief). She refers to her skids as "my girls", "my daughters". She often likes to brag on social media how she would do anything for them unlike other SMs (me) that she knows :sick:

How would you feel?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 09/21/2017 - 6:17am

This is just a general question. While it could apply to my life (and kind of has at times)it's nothing directly with my life. I'm curious as to what others think and how they would feel.

How would you feel about hosting your out of town in-laws at your house for a skid celebration that you weren't invited to and flat out told DO NOT COME. So while in-laws are making a big deal about the celebration... you just have to sit there and listen to it all and be a polite host.

Thoughts?

(and take out the factor of "My DH wouldn't attend if I wasn't invited")

OT- Locator apps on cell phones

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 08/14/2017 - 7:14am

BS12 has an android. Is there an app or something already on the phone that can be used if the phone gets lost/stolen to where I can locate the phone? Or in the event that something happened to BS I would know where he is at?

This is his first year with a smart phone and he is also getting older and wanting to go out more on his own. So we will be taking baby steps in allowing him a little more freedom.

I would feel better knowing there is a way to track his phone (and him) if there is an emergency.

Asking as a BM- how would you bring this up?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 08/07/2017 - 7:48am

I don't have to worry about this until Christmas time... but I was thinking about it and how to handle this year.

BS goes with his dad every Christmas afternoon and stays for a few days. Christmas day they are at Ex's uncle's house. BS gets a lot of money in cash gifts from family. Sometimes up to $400.

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