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Bad Bunny

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You had to go and kick the bucket didnt you? You couldnt do it next week (our off week), or last weekend...

A very sweet bunny, however this bunny has caused me much grief, without even trying. Not the garden variety "oh you ate my prized tree!" kind of grief.

The kind that spans the entire time Ive been in this - 7 years. Im having flashbacks of the arguments this bun bun has caused. The conflicts it is continuing to cause, even through his passing.

RIP to ... Disengagement?

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Ok, folks, so I have some things weighing heavily on my mind.

SD15 backstabber's bunny crossed the rainbow bridge today.

The last bunny that did this, it was from Toxic Trolls apartment, and we buried it in the backyard. Tears and all that.

This one is an older bunny, and again there will be tears.I merely said "Im really sorry".

I am disengaged, so I doubt that I will want to participate in another tear-filled Bunny Crossing. Or I guess this supercedes the disengagement manifesto?

Another thing is on my mind.

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Planning 101

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Im a planner. I just really cant help it! And now, since I'm disengaged-disengaging, I'm curious about, with this disengagment, what everyone did once the skid "aged out". I hear all the time "it doesnt end when they age out!", but certain things certainly do.

Im just thinking, does a disengaged stepper plan and need to know the "launch process plans"?

Schedule Blues (& Grays)

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SO, DH waited until today to ask SD15 Backstabber/Munchkin to ask her mother to change the schedule.

He specified Monday-Sunday. I specifically had discussed Monday-Monday (like it was before for oh, about a million years, before B/M decided SHE wanted a change because of some convoluted excuse of I dont want to log in and show everyone my mothers apartment...something she didnt quite explain very well, which we were sympathetic to AT THE TIME).

ACK! When dealing with these people you have to be VERY firm. And VERY detailed/definite.

The Communication Talk

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Is that a double negative? LOL. I had a talk with DH last night.

Basically hammering home the point that I need communication. I need to be included in things that have to do with SD15 Backstabber.

Situation:

School started yesterday (Wednesday), and thats typically our "changeover day" that was started last school year because thats what Backstabber wanted. 

The Ironic Television Tale

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SO! A little bit of and update and funny story too.

This weekend was marvelous! In so many many ways.

DH is back to DH. Hes been the pink of perfection on many levels. My friends are wonderful and I have been spending time and making plans (that do NOT include SD15 Backstabber, and some that do NOT include DH). 

The totally (non) romantic (non) vacation of CLove, and her man

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Whelp. Happy Monday I am so glad you are here!

The vacation started out great. We lazed around until the last minute and then a flurry of packing (on my list of what NOT to do next time). SD15 Backstabber-now-refered to as Munchkin Wife, was all packed up early. She seemed excited and happy and on best behavior the whole day before.

We had a friend who would come over and take care of the dragon, two rabbits, cat and dog. He hangs out ever week so everyone knows him well by now anyway. Nice chap.

Im a Wheel - take a bet

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not a topic title, its the song title Im listening to. Plus a topic title. A two-fer.

So - an interesting turn of the wheel...

DH mentioned that SD15 B/M would be with us early, and my "spidey senses" went off, because we are a bit high strung over plans for our 4-day trip. "Whats wrong I ask?" he responds with "the girls are fighting again, so she will be with us early". 

I texted SD15 B/M, "whats the issue", to see if she would tell me the truth. Her phone broke and oh yea her sister was insulting her.

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