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CP BMs Signing Skids Up For Every.Activity.Under.The.Sun (TM)

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This is somewhat of a spin off to "you're killing me DH"

But I forgot #5

I still believe that signing skids up for all sorts of activities on dad's time serves several purposes for the BM:

1. Skid can't bond or spend one on one time with dad when he/she is out kicking a soccer ball

2. Skid can't experience "real life" when racing to activities; shifts focus from normal family life with dad and SM to skid.

3. BM can "control from afar" by controlling skid on dad's time

StepDad BigBucks Calls SD (stb 16) on Driver's Law Violation--Check out SD's reaction and MORE!

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SD posted that she and four teenage friends piled into a car to go to a pizza joint; the driver of the car had a "junior license" and was under the age of 18.

Stepdad posted: I only posted this as a reminder that NYS law says no more than three teens can be in a car at the same time. One teen driver, one teen related to the driver, and one unrelated to the driver.

SD posts back: Cause people totally follow this law.

Stepdad: The law is the law. If you don't follow it you are committing a crime.

NO "likes" from the BM, no defense of Stepdad WHAT-SO-EVER

Legal Eagles Alert! How Would You Word This

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Chef is now on board with changing the mediation agreement since I explained to him how much it would cost AND he's come to the realization that he wouldn't be able to move out without me "putting him up." I'm actually doing this for ME since less money in his pocket is less money in my pocket and more money for the BM.

O/T On the Bright Side: My Plantar Fascitis is Going Away

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Had it in my right foot since April. Went to a podiatrist, a physical therapist and finally an acupuncturist. I bought shoe inserts, you name it, stretching etc. Very limited relief.

I stopped going to all three, bought New Balance snug sneakers, put the insert inside, stretch here and there and my pain is not ANYTHING like it once was!!

Now it could be that it just ran it's course as I've read that it usually lasts around six months.

I'm SOOO relieved!!!

Update: Attorney Consultation=Epic FAIL; Chef BAILS

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Finally found a GREAT attorney that could help Chef. Spent two hours gathering documents and researching attorneys. Do you think Chef would be grateful?

NOPE!

As the attorney was talking, Chef did the "body language" that he was NOT going to try for the downward mod because THIS attorney was on the ball.

The attorney sensed this and said "I'm not going to represent you because I can tell you don't want to do this" while looking straight at Chef.

Thank GOD the attorney didn't charge me the consultation fee!

Blog Hog Alert: Is Anyone Else's Skids Doing This Challenge Then Posting On FB??!!

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImCD5p3XQXA

The WARHEAD Challenge. Both OSS (will be 18 next month), SD (stb 16) and her stb 20 year old boyfriend are doing this stupidity! COMPLETE WITH NOMINATIONS BY THE BM!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

Oh and SD lost instantly due to her refined palate for chicken nuggets, cheese pizza, doritos, peanut butter cups, french fries, chocolate chip pancakes and oreos only.

Won't Be Long Before OSS's Uncle's Partner Will Be Sick of the Mooch. . .

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I feel it in my bones already. OSS (will be 18 early October) is writing disrespectful posts about his Uncle's partner. And from what I know about this guy's background, he most likely will NOT put up with a disrespectful young punk like OSS.

He is also being somewhat nasty to the partner's dog. A BIG no no!

I'm pretty sure that OSS will wear out his welcome, mooching off of Uncle and partner and being a jerk.

Tomorrow is the Attorney Consultation (I don't have my hopes up)

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Editor's note: The venue is NYS in which CS goes to 21 mandatory; just to be clear so that no one responds "he's 18, so he's done with CS"
NYS also says that if a child enters college and he extends it past age 21, then the BM is entitled to extra CS, which I have NO doubt that is what the BM intends to have happen.

This is the third attorney that Chef has used since WELL after the divorce. He foolishly went pro se for the divorce when the BM "lawyered up!"

The magistrate is notoriously anti-father and rabidly pro-BM.

The Seven Hours I Had With YSS--My Nanny 911 Event

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So about six years ago, I had the "opportunity" to have YSS (at the time 6 yrs old) completely under my watch--no holds barred.

Chef had to work that Saturday and it was a weekend that the BM wanted to dump him on us. Of course, Chef said "yes" to my babysitting of him--the way NCP biodads often do without much if any consultation of SM.

SO, I decided to have the same rules as I would my own children who are now grown and productive, self-supporting members of society.

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