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Update to disorganized.

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First off thank you ladies!! I appreciate all the great advice.

So his teacher who I really do love got back to me with how things are set up. Last night on his own bs came home with this binder he forgot he had and a plan. We discussed the missing picture, he swears he gave it back to his partner. I said well what are you going to do to get this assignment completed. He said I am going to ask the teacher where she got it and print a new one. Right answer.

The teacher told me how the day is structured, when they are to organize themselves ect...

Need mom advice

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So BS is 10 and is in 5th grade. Very smart just got report card yesterday...awesome grades. Here is our issue he is struggling with organization. If they are missing work they have to email their parents. The last few weeks he has had issues forgetting to being things home.

I have emailed teacher back asking about when they are organizing homework ect... gym is the last class before they leave I think the kid is all worked up and goofy when they get back to class and this is when it is happening. I asked about meeting with her to discuss and she has not gotten back to me.

Christmas break

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So in the spirit of co operation other wise known as pacify my ex I offered him additional time withbs10 over the holidays, I was clear on the dates, he agreed ect....

On Friday he offered to let me pick bs up early this coming Sunday because we had switched weekends for my parents party. He decided it was not fair to have him so much on the weekends with Christmas eve falling on my weekend. Thisbis the same man who was screaming because he is too lazy to see bs10 the day in the week that I offered (because he wants more time) and wanted 3 weekends a month.

Feeling bad for loosing my temper

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So I am super busy at work, I had to leave 2hrs early for my MS Dr appt today. At 10am I am on a conference call and o get a call from the school. It is bs, he forgot to do a packet of homework so the teacher makes him call me. I had to put my call on mute to answer because I was afraid something happened to him. Not pleased but we discussed when I got home.

Family pictures

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So today we did our Christmas card pictures. Either I am the best mom or crazy but my son and husband live Beavus and Butt head. We did our nice pictures in our dress up clothes and the boys had AC/DC and Metalica t shirts underneath. They then got to take the dress shirts off revealing the t shirts. Hysterical! We all had fun and the pictures are great.

One of the girls made the comment about how you could tell they were father and son because of their close relationship. I laughed and explained they are step dad and step son and she said well that Just makes it even better.

Insurance part 3

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So after having to ask multiple times for the details on exes plan and not getting any info here is our interchanges and what I feel is just another veiled threat.

I have carried bs on insurance before and after the divorce. Ex offered to add kids and quit paying his portion of my cost to insure bs because he is adding his wife so the kids are free because they do not have employee plus spouse just family. He expected Me then to pay all bills and copays for him adding bs.

Here are last week's emails and todays.

Where does my boy come up with these questions??

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Tonight as I was making dinner, BS10 asks me why did you ever marry my dad? omg!!! He was at his dad's this weekend and I know they had a good time together....not sure what prompted that question.

I told him once upon a time I loved your dad very much and that is why I married him. And that was that...dinner was ready.

Twitter= opportunity to be insane.

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so my ex loon has gone nuts on twitter. the things he is claiming are insane. He says he is an ex leo...he went to a 2 year community college for law enforcement, never got a job other than a security guard, he was raped at 13 and that ruined his life and both marriages, he has PSTD, and is a suicide survivor, he worked for Al Fraken and is now a huge Trump supporter and is very conspiracy theory enough the lefties...My personal favorite was when he said that if he wanted to have someone lie to him and take all his money he would call me.

none of this crap is true.

Ot- joint Xmas gift

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So my son and my husband love sports memorabilia and they loved Kirby Puckett. They both want a signed ball...they are more money than I spend singly on each of them. I found one on eBay and am thinking about getting it as a joint gift. They display their memorabilia together and my husband's will end up being BSs after he passes.

Do you think that is a bad idea or not? Looking for some opinions.

Insurance update

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So after a week the case worker responded with this.

He has not asked anything else nor did he answer my questions so I am leaving bs on my insurance....he was pissed I switched over to going through the state but I can't work with him nor do I want to spend 2k to have my lawyer try and work with him.

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