So I work in operations at a company and one of the things we deal with are non compliance penalties as a vendor with our customers. It is a huge issue at times, but I have found inspiration in it and have instituted non compliance parenting at my home.

I hate conferences as we attend together. My ex and I are going to court next month because he refuses to acknowledge the cs review and because I was stupid and agreed not to go through the state for payment I had to have my attorney file, now he stopped paying period.

We don't speak to each other and only communicate via email or text because he makes things up. It is stressful for me, but I do my best to act like it isn't for bs.

Omg I wish his wife came with to these. He acts normal around her. Not so nasty digs at me.

So my BS9 has a pretty good relationship with my husband, they are buddies. My husband is a huge help with BS and really enjoys being a step dad. So they love to watch sports, talk sports, play ball ect... I am thankful because I used to have to do all this and despite working for a sporting goods manufactuer, I am not really into sports.

In the words of my ex husband... I do not consult a piece of paper to make my decisions.

Today he offered my the opportunity to choose whether I wanted to drop off or pick up or son on Christmas eve ( decree says who ever is getting child does the picking up ). When I said I would stick with picking up he said I could not get son until the end tI me stated but that he would be picking up before time stated. I reminded him of what was stated in the decree but that would be okay and that was his response.